r/WouldIBeTheAhole • • 11h ago

WIBTA if I told my SIL to buy her own turkey now that shes charging $40 a head for Thanksgiving?

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My husband’s sister is hosting Thanksgiving this year now that my MIL finally handed it off, and on Sunday she texted everyone the plan. It’s “$40 a person this year, kids under 10 free, and everybody just bring something to drink!” A minute later I got a separate text from her that just said “you’re still on turkey duty right 😊” with nothing else after it.

I’ve done the turkey every year since my dad passed, on his old smoker. He bought it at a church auction when I was in high school and it takes up half our garage, my husband has been trying to get rid of it for years. I honestly love doing it, it’s the only time all year anybody touches the thing, and a bird big enough for everybody runs about $70 with me out there before the sun comes up checking on it every hour or so.

Our daughter’s too old to count as a kid for this, so it’s $120 for us plus the turkey. My husband’s brother and his wife are bringing a case of beer. As far as I can tell nobody else has been asked to cook anything.

So my plan is to Venmo her what she asked for like everyone else and text her back that since everybody’s paying in now, the turkey can come out of that too and I’ll just bring a drink like she said.

I typed it out last night and deleted it. They closed on their first house in August and she’s mentioned more than once how tight money is with the new mortgage, and I don’t want her first year hosting to start with me making it weird over a turkey.

Then this morning she texted me again to ask whether I can do my stuffing this year too.

WIBTA?


r/interestingasfuck • • 9h ago

Our moon being formed.

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r/SipsTea • • 2h ago

SMH Trump scolds another reporter: "Are you a stupid person? Who do you work for? You're a stupid person."

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r/interesting • • 11h ago

SOCIETY If your father left you $10M, would you share it with your siblings who were cut out of the inheritance?

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EDIT: I found the full 10 minute video of this:

https://youtu.be/aAjZ_PgioPE


r/HistoryMemes • • 3h ago

How fast time flies

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r/AITApod • • 12h ago

AITA for making my husband replace 15 meals after he gave half my meal prep to his sister?

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AITA for making my husband replace 15 meals after he gave half my meal prep to his sister?

Every month I spend a full Sunday doing meal prep for us. I plan out the recipes the week before and do one big grocery run on Saturday, usually about $190. Then Sunday morning to Sunday night I’m in the kitchen cooking and portioning everything into containers. 30 meals go into the chest freezer, all labeled, and that’s what we eat on weeknights for the month.

My husband’s sister had her baby a few weeks ago. She came over last Thursday with the baby so we could finally meet her. I was still at work when she got there.

When I got home my husband told me his sister looked really exhausted and he’d packed up a bunch of the meals from the freezer and sent her home with them so she wouldn’t have to worry about cooking for a while. I said that was really sweet and didn’t think anything of it.

Monday I went to grab dinner and half the freezer shelf was empty. I went through the labels and counted. He’d given her 15 of the 30.

I asked him why he didn’t check with me first. He said she needed them right then and we still had enough to get through 2 weeks. I told him that’s not really the point, I spent a full day making those and now I have to do the whole thing over again in the middle of the month which I have literally never had to do.

He offered to help me make more this weekend. He’s never made a single meal in 4 years. I’ve never once seen him use anything in the kitchen besides the coffee maker and the microwave.

I told him he’s replacing all 15 himself. I’ll buy the groceries and write out every recipe but he’s the one cooking them. He gave away an entire day of my work and he can find out what that actually takes.

His mom called me that night to say I’m being petty over some damn food. AITA?


r/technology • • 7h ago

Society New Airbnb rules ban hosts from making guests wash dishes, do laundry & other checkout chores

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r/politics • • 10h ago

Possible Paywall Young Men Who Helped Get Trump Elected Are ‘Blackpilling’ Out of Politics

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r/cats • • 4h ago

Cat Picture - OC Show me your cats to cheer me up please!

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Feeling really down tonight and could use some cute or funny cat pictures to brighten my day! Here is Doughnut and Nora. 💖


r/antimeme • • 13h ago

LGBTQIA+🏳️‍🌈 That seems to be true

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r/Music • • 10h ago

article Kid Rock Claims His Trump Ties Cost Him Corporate Deals and Friendship With Late-Night TV Hosts

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r/interestingasfuck • • 7h ago

Last photo of Mister Rogers, taken on the 1st of January, 2003

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r/antiai • • 2h ago

Preventing the Singularity Based SonicFox

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r/news • • 7h ago

New Mexico Meta Ordered to Pay $25 Billion for Deceiving Users on Privacy

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r/mildlyinfuriating • • 7h ago

Context Provided - Spotlight Price of a single McDonald’s hashbrown

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Yes $3 isn’t a lot of money, but it’s way more than what a single hashbrown is worth.

Edit: holy shit relax people. I didn’t notice the price until after I ordered. God forbid a guy wants a hashbrown to go with his McGriddle.

Edit 2: Y’all too funny getting so upset about this. Thanks for the interactions!! 🤣


r/BlackPeopleofReddit • • 8h ago

News Airline passenger cries for 3 hours straight because another woman wouldn't give up her seat

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Bravo to this sister for standing her ground. I'm sure the WW's husband was grateful too.

edit: Yes, unfortunately this is a real story. Source: https://www.insideedition.com/media/videos/aDEdJX3yObY


r/Baking • • 14h ago

General Baking Discussion Do my apple fritters have too much icing?

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r/texts • • 7h ago

Phone message Shaken up over these texts I received

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We broke up early 2025. I fell out of love after a year long relationship. The relationship itself was pretty stable, no arguing. We had some bickering but nothing crazy. She took the breakup really hard, she kept contacting me for “closure” which were always the same questions over and over again. Ultimately I realized she was trying to get me to cave and agree to get back together with her, so I blocked her number. I’ve had bad relationships before her that were my fault due to unresolved trauma. She decided to reach out to them, searching for answers as to why our relationship dissolved. My relationship with her was nothing like my relationship with them. I feel awful that she is going through the most excruciating pain anyone on earth can go through. I’m trying to all the coping skills imaginable but it’s hard not to take on her pain right now.

EDIT : she had cancer as a teenager that she went into full remission for. She had a scar across her stomach from the surgery. I really want to believe she wouldn’t lie about having cancer again.


r/CFB • • 9h ago

News [Pete Thamel] Sources: Maryland coach Mike Locksley has been dismissed. Maryland dropped to 2-5 on Saturday after a last-second loss to Rutgers. Locksley is 39-54 overall at Maryland, including his interim stint in 2015. Maryland is on a bye this week.

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r/SpaceXBets • • 8h ago

Venting / Rant Nationalize SpaceX. America’s essential space infrastructure should answer to the public.

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r/TopCharacterTropes • • 2h ago

Characters Your God is real and they do not approve of your actions

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  1. Sekhmet reclaims her power from drolta who was once a priestess in the former's temple while making it very clear that she does appreciate drolta's attempts to bring her back. (Castlevania nocturne)

  2. Blue fangs. A night creature who specifically calls out the bishop for his role in bringing down Dracula's wrath. The priest claims his work was in God's name but blue fangs retorts that "your life's work makes him puke" (Netflix Castlevania)


r/nba • • 5h ago

[The Onion] Fans Worry Achilles Tear May Not Be End Of Ben Simmons’ Career

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r/unpopularopinion • • 6h ago

Putting razor blades in the wall was a great idea.

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Lots of old houses had a slot in the bathroom for razor blades disposal. Put the used blade into the slot and it falls into the wall. I think this is a brilliant idea and we should still be doing it!

The trouble with razor blade disposal is that they are small and sharp. Putting them in trash bags and having them hauled away to the dump only poses a potential hazard to every person or animal that crosses paths with that razor in the future.

The wall is better. Once the blade is in the wall you will never encounter it again. It's safely sealed away and poses no risk to anyone.

Since razor blades are tiny, you will never run out of space in the wall.

There is no hygiene issue. The blades might rust a bit inside the wall over time, but they aren't going to grow mold or anything.

If someone remodels the bathroom and uncovers them, it's no big deal. They can literally be left there and just sealed up behind the new drywall. The ONLY time the blades would ever need to be handled again is if the wall was being demolished. In that case, they can all be safely handled and contained at once.

(Note that I am not talking about disposable razors...just razor blades).


r/gaming • • 8h ago

EA Laying Off 3% of Employees in Studios Restructuring: BioWare Shutting Down, Respawn and DICE to Team on ‘Star Wars: Battlefront 3’

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BREAKING:

Videogame giant Electronic Arts, in its first major move since going private this summer, is restructuring its studios business — which will result in layoffs of about 3% of global workforce.

The updates to EA’s studios operations were outlined in a memo to EA employees Wednesday from Cam Weber, president and chief studios officer, and David Tinson, president and COO. “Over the past several months, we’ve taken a hard look at our business, how we operate, and what it will take to lead in this next era of interactive entertainment,” the execs said. (Read the full memo below.)

Among the big changes: Games studio BioWare is shutting down after EA decided to pull the plug on its development of a new “Mass Effect” title. The company will close BioWare’s Canadian office in Edmonton. “BioWare is a legendary studio that helped define the role-playing genre, and we do not take this decision lightly,” Weber and Tinson said.

EA last reported 14,500 employees, meaning the layoffs affect around 400 staffers.

In more upbeat news, Weber and Tinson touted first-person shooter “Battlefield 6” as “a great success, and we learned a lot from the launch and the live service.” Going forward, in addition to future “Battlefield” titles, the execs said “we’ll be bringing together our Respawn and DICE studios to collaborate on a future project.” While they did not identify the project, multiple sources confirmed that this is “Star Wars: Battlefront 3″ for Lucasfilm.

EA also will continue to “invest heavily” in the “Apex Legends” franchise over the next few years, with plans to introduce new gameplay modes in multiplayer, along with other new experiences.

Elsewhere in the action-adventure segment, EA remains committed delivering on “our two huge launches coming up,” the execs said: “Marvel’s Iron Man” and the next “Star Wars Jedi” game.

At EA Sports, there are two new projects in development that will be revealed over the next few months, including a new, “social-first open-world experience for our American Football team that we call ‘Project Gridiron,'” the execs said. The studio also is in pre-production to bring back fan-favorite boxing game “Fight Night” after a 15-year hiatus.

Finally, in the lifestyle category, “we’re focusing on the long-term potential” of “The Sims” and skateboarding title “Skate.”, the EA execs wrote. “We’re going to prioritize our efforts on ‘Project Evergreen’ for The Sims to give the team more time to reach the full potential and vision for the game, and to help make this possible, we’re pausing development on ‘Project Lotus,’” they said. For “Skate.”, EA is “making changes to the studio to have a more focused, smaller team to deliver on a very clear roadmap for our community that we believe will build a healthier and more sustainable business,” the execs wrote.

On Aug. 4, EA closed the announced private-equity deal with Saudi Arabia’s Public Investment Fund, Silver Lake and Jared Kushner’s Affinity Partners in an all-cash transaction valued at $55 billion.

Read the memo from Weber and Tinson:

Hi Team,

First, thank you.

Through every major moment we’ve faced as a company, your commitment to creating awesome games and experiences for our players continues to be impressive. Together, we’ve built epic worlds and global communities that are part of the lives of hundreds of millions of people.

Today, we’re the number one publisher in Western HD gaming. That’s an extraordinary position to lead from, and one we should be proud of. Yet our industry is changing quickly. Players have more choices than ever for their time and attention, competition is intensifying, and some of our biggest opportunities for growth are beyond the markets, platforms, and business models where EA has traditionally been the strongest.

That’s why, over the past several months, we’ve taken a hard look at our business, how we operate, and what it will take to lead in this next era of interactive entertainment. We’ve challenged assumptions, confronted hard realities, imagined new possibilities, and made deliberate choices in order to deliver exceptional experiences for our players and to drive sustained growth.

We believe our best creative work happens when we’re clear about what matters most for our players and give our teams the freedom to move quickly. So, we’re concentrating our teams, technology, and investment behind these three strategic priorities.

  • Deepen Our Core: Our greatest opportunity starts with our franchises and global communities that have made EA a leader in interactive entertainment. This is where we’ve had to make our hardest choices. Saying no to some things we’re passionate about allows us to focus our teams and resources so we give our biggest opportunities everything they need to succeed.
  • Expand Our Reach: The strength of our core business creates an enormous opportunity to reach more players across new platforms, markets, and business models. As one example, in regions as dynamic as Asia, success means building experiences that reflect local players, cultures, and expectations.
  • Transform Our Business: We believe we can use our experience building interactive entertainment, together with our relationships in sports, to create entirely new ways for fans to engage with the teams, athletes and sports they love. These will be disciplined investments that only scale when they demonstrate real potential.

These priorities will bring clarity and focus to your work every day, and so will the way we work. We’ve spent time listening to teams about what’s working, what’s getting in the way, and what you need to do your best work. The feedback was consistent: you want clearer priorities, faster decisions, and teams that work more closely together. We’ve already begun simplifying how we work so we can spend more time creating and innovating for our players.

Our Portfolio Choices

Across our portfolio, we’re making deliberate choices to align talent and investments where we see the greatest opportunities for players and long-term growth.

In our Shooters business***,*** Battlefield 6 was a great success, and we learned a lot from the launch and the live service. We’re going to take those learnings, balance our resources, and leverage the technology to deliver a shooter portfolio that unlocks growth. In addition to our future Battlefield titles, we’ll be bringing together our Respawn and DICE studios to collaborate on a future project that will help us achieve that ambition. We can’t wait to share more when the time comes. We’re also continuing to invest heavily in Apex over the next few years by introducing brand new gameplay modes in multiplayer, and other new experiences, to expand the universe.

Action-adventure is one of the most competitive and high-stakes genres in the industry, where every game needs our full weight behind it. We’re continuing to deliver on our two huge launches coming up with Marvel’s Iron Man and the next Star Wars Jedi game. Beyond that, we will concentrate our efforts on fewer simultaneous, large-scale projects, ensuring that every game we build in this space is fully set up for success.

As we focus on these larger opportunities, we’ve had a small team at BioWare working on early-development for Mass Effect. We’ve made the decision not to move forward with this development, which means we’re closing the studio and our Edmonton workspace. BioWare is a legendary studio that helped define the role-playing genre, and we do not take this decision lightly.

EA SPORTS continues to operate from a position of strength. We are fully committed and investing in the global growth of our FC franchise and across the full EA SPORTS portfolio. We have two new projects in development you’ll hear about over the next few months, including a brand-new, social-first open-world experience for our American Football team that we call “Project Gridiron,” and we are also in pre-production to bring back a beloved, fan-favorite in Fight Night, leveraging capabilities from our simulation fighting team.

In Lifestyle, we’re focusing on the long-term potential of The Sims and skate. We’re going to prioritize our efforts on “Project Evergreen” for The Sims to give the team more time to reach the full potential and vision for the game, and to help make this possible, we’re pausing development on “Project Lotus.” For skate., we’ve had a lot of success in bringing players into the game, and we need to create an experience that keeps them engaged over the long-term. To do that, we are making changes to the studio to have a more focused, smaller team to deliver on a very clear roadmap for our community that we believe will build a healthier and more sustainable business.

Building the EA We Believe In

The decisions we’re making in our priorities, how we work, and with our portfolio reflect our belief in EA’s future. Some open exciting new possibilities. Others are difficult, especially for the people and teams across the company who are directly affected. In those cases, we will support impacted employees in exploring other opportunities within EA, and we’re committed to treating impacted colleagues with care and respect.

We’re sure there will be questions about what these changes mean for individual teams and for EA more broadly. You can speak directly with your leaders to hear more on that, and we’ll make sure to spend time discussing our direction and the work ahead at our next Global Town Hall in November.

The past several months have strengthened our belief in what EA can become. We have extraordinary people, franchises that matter to millions of players, and opportunities to build experiences we’ve only begun to imagine.

Our responsibility is to make the choices, provide the clarity, and create the conditions for our teams to do their best work. We also want to give every game we choose to build its best chance to succeed for our players and fans around the world.

We look forward to building more great games and experiences together.

Thanks,

Cam & David


r/anticapitalism • • 3h ago

I Reported Trump for Fraud on His Own Fraud.gov, 67 Times. Here’s How You Can Too.

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