r/texts • u/stellar_diverr • 7h ago
Phone message Shaken up over these texts I received
We broke up early 2025. I fell out of love after a year long relationship. The relationship itself was pretty stable, no arguing. We had some bickering but nothing crazy. She took the breakup really hard, she kept contacting me for “closure” which were always the same questions over and over again. Ultimately I realized she was trying to get me to cave and agree to get back together with her, so I blocked her number. I’ve had bad relationships before her that were my fault due to unresolved trauma. She decided to reach out to them, searching for answers as to why our relationship dissolved. My relationship with her was nothing like my relationship with them. I feel awful that she is going through the most excruciating pain anyone on earth can go through. I’m trying to all the coping skills imaginable but it’s hard not to take on her pain right now.
EDIT : she had cancer as a teenager that she went into full remission for. She had a scar across her stomach from the surgery. I really want to believe she wouldn’t lie about having cancer again.
