It's realistic. A lot of us are out here working two jobs, all the chores, school and work, long ass work, all the chores, sometimes kids. Exploring things takes TIME that we do not have or energy something else saps.
‘Scene’ does kind of sound like I’m hitting up clubs after work but that’s not really my ‘scene’. My access to queer spaces only opened up after I met other queers in grad school (during covid even) and later exploring book club meetups.
Meeting new people let alone making new friends after your twenties is really fucking hard. I go through phases of efforts only at my therapist’s insistence. It is work but I’ve had to learn the hard way that cultivating relationships, not necessarily romantic or sexual, are really essential to my overall health.
Work can be really draining. I remember the first few months of full time employment, I was disgusted with how much daylight I never got to see and how quickly I was getting out of shape. Your time is more valuable than you think.
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u/Electronic_Elk8293 Sep 13 '26
" I might be bisexual, but it's a little too late" that being said with the straight face and grayscale killed me 🤣