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Just... ask for more money?

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u/Ok_Chance_1648 7h ago

Is this American? I ask because in England I've never heard of giving extra money to a tattoo artist after agreeing on how much money I'm going to give them. Why wouldn't they just give the total cost upfront?

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u/rippledippledapple 7h ago

I have several tattoos, and the last one i had was the most expensive and took the longest. chatting with the artist he said he doesnt give a shit if his customers tip. its nice when they do, but he charges what he wants for the work, if he wanted more, he would charge more.

the whole "youre supposed to tip" stuff is bullshit. but tipping is stupid as fuck in the US.

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u/Glass_Covict 6h ago

I just have one quick question to ask before the payment goes through. Stares off just ove there

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u/Fancy-Savings-767 6h ago

I assume this happens because the artist gives a percentage of the cost to the shop owner but gets 100% of tips. Similar to a barber or hair stylist

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u/FondleGanoosh438 7h ago

Just a tipping culture thing

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u/EliachTCQ 6h ago

Tipping a business owner is just nonsense. Let me go and send a tip to Bill Gates after purchasing MS Office lmao

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u/FondleGanoosh438 6h ago

In most cases where tipping is involved owners aren’t tipped out. It’s actually illegal in my state. Tattoo artists are their own thing though. Some rent chairs and others own the chairs. It’s a lot like the barber industry.

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u/EliachTCQ 5h ago

If they're the ones that invoice you then a tip is just money under the table

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u/FondleGanoosh438 3h ago

Correct. Cash tips are for avoiding taxes.

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u/TacoPKz 7h ago

For tattoos specifically if you don’t tip it can be taken as you are unsatisfied with their work. The extra money is obviously the #1 reason artists like to be tipped but #2 is that it’s an affirmation that they didn’t do a shit job.

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u/Brick_Grimes 4h ago

America is the home of the everything has hidden fees after all

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u/Ok_Chance_1648 4h ago

Oh yes that's right, you don't pay the price displayed in shops either. That's bonkers that mate.

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u/Public-Total-250 2h ago

My first time travelling to America I learned this immediately. We had to take the airport shuttle bus from the terminal to some other area if the airport. My suitcase was in the storage in the side of the bus. A guy pulled it out and handed it to me and then held his hand out. I didn't notice until he said 'excuse me! Tip expected'

I was confused and ignored him and didn't process the interaction until later as I was jetlagged. 

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u/Public-Total-250 2h ago

Like, dude, if you weren't standing there I'd have pulled my bag out myself. You get nothing. 

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u/Brick_Grimes 2h ago

Shit we got places now where if you go up to a counter, say 1 soda, they hand you a bottle of soda, and then swipe your card the machine will ask you if you want to leave a tip lmao.

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u/gorillaphi 7h ago

You’re supposed to tip.  Which is weird cause they make up the price to begin with.

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u/weshallarise 7h ago

do you tip plumbers? or electricians? where is the line. my tattoo artist doesn't accept tips because he said the price is the price and he sets it.

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u/AcanthisittaWeird94 6h ago edited 5h ago

There's no line. There's self service machines asking for a tip lol

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u/CumGuzlinGutterSluts 4h ago

Theres a self serv fro-yo place near me that has employees whos sole job is to clean and refill the candy buffet... no cash, you just make your thing, put it on the scale and tap your card. They dont even have to speak to you the entire time... fucking machine asks if you want to tip 25% 30% or 35%

Like fuck right off with that nonsense

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u/FirmOnion 1h ago

I wonder if it's just like, a spiderweb, there to catch the least perceptive and most apathetic flies

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u/Technical-Mix-981 4h ago

America again? that's dystopic

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u/blazenite104 3h ago

I've also been told most places don't include taxes on price tags. No wonder everyone's going crazy there. No one knows what they're supposed to pay for anything. Must be getting ripped off constantly.

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u/Cloud-VII 6h ago

I give them a beer when they are done.

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u/NWmba 6h ago

oh man, I had a handyman from Facebook get pissy for not tipping. he came over, I asked how much, he told me, I said fine, he did the work, I gave him the money, he was not happy. struck me as so strange. did you want 20 bucks more? just say 20 bucks more, it’s your price!

mind he was American and this was in Europe…

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u/TunaBlub 6h ago

Them expecting you to know is silly.

But "american" says enough.

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u/I_call_Shennanigans_ 6h ago

Even if you know its pure idiocy. Tell people what you cost. Full stop.

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u/FancyConfection1599 5h ago

Tipping’s fucking stupid and made up bullshit everywhere. Remove it wholesale like other countries do perfectly well and there is no problem.

I genuinely can’t stand tip culture, it’s the most toxic thing that people put up with just because they were told that’s the way it is here

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u/iloveoverlord 6h ago

I’ve been tipped twice ever as an electrician; those were good days

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u/3FistedHumdinger 5h ago

You don't tip plumbers and electricians, you ask for their card and recommend them to your friends.

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u/Nick-dipple 5h ago

America is going towards a culture of tipping everyone. I guess it's not that bad to tip blue collar workers that are on a payroll. For contractors I would say it's a bit stupid.

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u/Shibanono 7h ago

I’ll tip them if they were really nice and did a good job. 

I had a guy come out and fix the wax ring for the toilet same day. While other places I called were saying 150, he asked for $70. I gave him an extra $20 because he communicated everything he was doing, was very polite, and fairly fast. 

I feel like that’s different though because most of those places have an owner that pays the people hourly and aren’t getting the full profit of the job they’re doing. 

A tattoo artist has limited overhead costs and is already charging a fuck ton of money for good work. Only way I’d ever tip an artist is if the price for the tattoo was cheap and/or the work was really good. 

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u/Stjernesluker 7h ago

Plumbers and electricians get offered something to drink that’s the social contract

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u/johnson7853 7h ago

always a glass of milk

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u/doc_skinner 6h ago

One rule of thumb in the US is to tip someone who has to pay some of their earnings to the actual business owner. It is common for tattoo artists and hair stylists to "rent a chair" at a salon. The owner pays rent, utilities, salary of a receptionist, and possibly some supplies. The tattooist or stylist pays a monthly fee to set up shop in the salon. They may also have to to pay a percentage of their income. In this case, tipping is often expected.

Of course this has bled into always tipping your hair stylist or tattoo artist, even if they own the salon or are straight-up employees.

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u/Davoguha2 6h ago

Frankly, those are trades that deserve a bit of tip room.

They're visiting your house, dealing with your stuff - lots of room between "just a guy that might fix something" - and a truly respectful professional - and someone who might go overboard and answer off topic questions or resolve issues "off the paperwork".

My only problem with tattoo artists is that they generally set their own prices - if they are underpaid, it's 100% on them.

Trade folks are generally better paid than a server, for example - but there's a huge range there between an aspiring teen working at Sears for near minimum, and self employed contractors and such... and an even wider range on the outcome of their services.

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u/soggycheesestickjoos 7h ago

there’s probably a difference in expectations from employees and self employed workers

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u/kcbeck1021 6h ago

Tipping is not expected to an owner. If the tattoo artist owns or rents the space then not tip should be expected if they are an employee of the shop then a tip is nice. Same for hair stylist.

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u/natelion445 6h ago

I’m not defending the US ripping culture at all, but maybe add BF some context. “Professionals” do not usually fall into top category. The idea is that there is (theoretically) a code or objective standard of the work that all should be adhering to. There should be very little variance between one qualified and professional electrician and another. The end result should be pretty similar with little creativity or individualism involved. It’s a skilled trade, not an art. They’re also not expected to provide good “customer service”. They’re expected to be factual and professional, not adding value to the service by the interpersonal dynamics. Sometimes that’s not true but that’s the idea.

People like hair dressers, barbers, tattoo artist, masseuses, servers, valets, etc do fall into tip category because there is an element of artistry or individual execution. There is not an objective code of what it means to be a good server or to serve a table “correctly”. Each massage client is different. The subjective experience of the person being served is the only metric of success (beyond basic safety and reasonableness).

There is a spectrum at play where a tattoo artist may fall closer to electrician as a skilled trade than they do a server and you see a correlation in the pay structure. Something like a tattoo service that has significant elements of both would have a flat fee predetermined for the execution of the trade and skill aspects. But to the extent the experience is subjectively superior to that base level due to an exceptional delivery of that trade to the person.

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u/Practical-Camp-9533 7h ago

What the fuck? Tipping is for low wage service employees. You don’t tip for custom work, you get a quote for what work costs and you pay it. This is insane.

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u/ChiBorninRaised 7h ago

They could include it in the price and still expect you to give them more.

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u/Choice_View_8184 7h ago

I have not and will never. Mf you told me what it costs it’s not like I’m gonna haggle lmao

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u/maylive666 7h ago

f that sideways

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u/Davoguha2 6h ago

You're not supposed to tip tattoo artists.

Legitimately, the vast majority of them are proprietors of their own businesses. They aren't paid sub minimum wage - they set their prices.

Not saying you can't - tip whoever you want. It's pretty weird to tip the person that sets the prices though, unless you just feel like they are under charging you.

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u/BadMunky82 6h ago

I think it might just have to do with how tips are taxed opposed to regular revenues.

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u/helpmeunderstand0000 6h ago

If you’re American maybe 

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u/raExelele 6h ago

Wow the U.S is ass. Tipping for a tattoo? Holy fuck

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u/TyloPr0riger 3h ago

If you think this is bad, wait 'till you see the self checkout machines asking for a tip.

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u/raExelele 3h ago

Oh god, i thought that was just a meme

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u/quagmirranseye 6h ago

nah thats stupid.

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u/Grouchy_Branch_510 5h ago

Who says you’re supposed to? Especially since their prices have gone up 10fold since I started getting them.

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u/broadsheet-555 7h ago

And often they own their own business

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u/foldy86 7h ago

The tip doesn't even count

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u/No-Tower-5119 7h ago

People like to pretend it’s as a simple as “you tip anytime a service is rendered” but we can’t agree as a society what constitutes a service + other socioeconomic reasons, it would just be easier to pay everyone a standard wage

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u/Omnom_Omnath 4h ago

supposed to? says who? what a stupid concept - you never tip people that set their own prices.

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u/edcculus 7h ago

there are so many weird little tipping situations in the US for services.

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u/One-Lavishness-6654 7h ago

Its an american thing, im good friends with my artist and always pay exactly what she asked, if its a long session i may drop by with some coca cola or buy her lunch if we stop to eat, but i wouldnt tip, shes her own boss she can ask for more lmao

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u/Dorfbulle80 7h ago

Same in France or Germany!

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u/bomdiagata 6h ago

I will say I did tip my tattoo artist in Germany (am American), but it was a 2-day project that she managed to get me an extra day for so I could go bigger with the piece, and she also gave me some dope shop merch in exchange. :) Shoutout to Daniela at Thorns and Spines!

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u/Dorfbulle80 6h ago

Sure you can but it's everything but expected!

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u/Krampus_Valet 6h ago

It is interesting. I'm in the US and have many tattoos, and my artist doesn't accept tips. He charges a fair price that we agree on in advance, and then he politely declines a tip when I politely offer one. It feels odd all around since I'm so accustomed to tipping on nearly everything, but for whatever reason he just doesn't like accepting tips.

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u/NationCrusher 6h ago

Tipping, in general, is an American thing. (Though in recent years, celebrities are trying to popularizing tipping in the UK. Don’t feel pressured if you don’t have extra to spare)

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u/addbiy3852 6h ago

I made a similar comment. To me tipping culture is so bizarre, either charge the full amount or just don't. Why is there some secret hidden charge on top? Is it for tax avoidance purposes? In which case how are small time vendors who dodge taxes any different to the off-shore accounters

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u/gorcorps 6h ago

Even as an American thing it's kind of an odd situation.  Unlike servers who work at a restaurant that sets their wage, tattoo artists typically set their own prices per job.  So that's no reason to not set your price to be what you expect to get out of the job in total.

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u/he6rt6gr6m 6h ago

Legit just gonna ask my tattooist her opinion on this. I've known her long enough that we can be honest with each other and I'm fairly certain that the 10 sessions I've had with her since she was an apprentice (now owns her own store and tours the world) have been priced accordingly. She does quote me the apprentice rate because I've been there since more or less day one and she's always been my tattooist. And I've never got the vibe she expects a tip or is disappointed she didn't get one. In fact quite the opposite, she's excited to plan the next session.

So yeah, I'm gonna go with this is america

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u/Hydrangeia 6h ago

Yes. They think every service demands tipping.

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u/PeeB4uGoToBed 5h ago

Last time i tipped for a tattoo they lowered the upfront cost of the tattoo. I paid $350, tipped $30 and paid in cash and he took $30 off the $350. If i feel like a tattoo artist goes abobe and beyond my expectations i try to tip SOMETHING, i won't go all out and do 20% like a restaurant but I try to hand over a little something in appreciation

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u/erossthescienceboss 5h ago

I wouldn’t say that tipping is mandatory for tattoos in the U.S., but I’d say that tattoos are one of the things tipping exists for in the purest form. Like — a tip is supposed to be extra money given if you think they did a good job, right?

Well. My artist does a bang-up job. So she always gets tipped.

If you’re in the U.S., unless the artist sucks, even a small tip is warranted. IMO.

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u/Ok_Chance_1648 4h ago

If you don't think they're going to do a good job why would you let them near ya skin. It's kinda assumed they will.

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u/StrykerC13 5h ago

It is indeed part of American culture. Tipping in general happens for a lot of creatives. If I had to guess it's partially because they often undervalue their own work and it became a common thing. But for another aspect if they're apprenticing under someone I'm guessing the shop owner they apprentice with sets the price and gets the lion's share but the tip is 100% theirs. All just speculation though.

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u/Background-Lynx-1213 5h ago

The tip culture over here is insane.

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u/sauvignon_blonde_ 4h ago

Of course it’s American. Tipping BS is always American.

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u/MourningWood1942 4h ago

We tip hair stylists and delivery drivers too

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u/I_am_dean 4h ago

I live in America and have around 11 tattoos, I've never tipped. Mainly because every time I asked "do you take tips?" And they say "no, its included in the price of the tattoo." It really depends on the artist because some of my friends were expected to tip.

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u/Cool-Drawing5820 7h ago

Seems like a US tip culture thing. I'm Swedish and at the restaurant I work at (McDonalds) I make 90 dollars an hour. I also get 10 months paid vacation per year and 5 years of paternity leave whenever I feel the need to have a child (which I would never do of course because of climate change, etc:) Also I get 100 paid sick days a year and healthcare here is completely free. So there's really no need for tips here. Basically, I think the tipping system in the US (and the whole country in general) should be burned down to the ground, it's vile ashes scattered to the wind.

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u/Dramatic-Tackle5159 7h ago

90 dollars an hour ?! Like US dollars ?

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u/lovingfluidchristian 7h ago

I can't tell if his comment is sarcastic or real lol

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u/margirtakk 7h ago

"10 months paid vacation" plus "100 paid sick days" is more PTO than there are days in a year. It's either a joke or there are major typos.

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u/whattfisthisshit 6h ago

It’s a joke.

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u/nerdycarguy18 7h ago

Gotta be, 10 months paid vacation???

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u/lovingfluidchristian 7h ago

Yeah there's no fucking way

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u/Barnwizard1991 7h ago

Yes they get paid American dollars in Sweden

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u/Dramatic-Tackle5159 6h ago

There's quite a few countries that use "dollars" in the name of their currency whether it be CAD , NZD, etc.

Sweden is not one of those countries, they use the krona.

In the comment I replied to they said dollars, that's why I asked.

If you knew that, you would understand why I asked.

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u/IcyAnything6306 6h ago

R/woooooosh

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u/Dramatic-Tackle5159 6h ago

^ haha you did it wrong you're gay now.

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u/IcyAnything6306 4h ago

Not again 😩 

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u/schlubble 6h ago

No Swedish dollars, which are worth roughly 3 US dollars each. Also, houses are about 80k there and they get paid interest by the bank to inhabit it.

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u/whattfisthisshit 7h ago

I know you’re not Swedish because there’s no limit to sick days. Rest is completely true

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u/505backup_1 6h ago

What do you mean there's no limit to sick days?

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u/pigeonight 6h ago

I don’t know about Sweden, but I’m in eastern europe. There is no limit to sick days. I call my gp, tell them I’m sick, if necessary, she asks me to come in to see if I need any medicines or tests, and then sends in the sick day amount that I need. My workplace is not asked for their approval or disapproval. They are informed through the system that I’ll be sick and staying home.

I only know that if you’re sick for more than a 6  months, you need to check in with the disability comission so they can approve.

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u/gkfesterton 6h ago

You were doing so good until you used the wrong 'its'!

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u/The_Tooter_Snooter 7h ago

They have to pay the shop commission but I would assume not on tips. They probably charge an agreed upon amount per hour with the shop, get to keep a percentage of that + the tip you give them. I have no idea what that percentage is but let’s say they owe the shop, idk, 50% of what they charge, the tip kinda makes up the difference. I hate tipping culture but I also think an artist should be paid for their work and if I get a $1000 tattoo and know they’re only gonna get 50% of that, I’ll throw em extra cuz i think their work is worth that much even if the shop won’t pay them. The unfortunate reality is, we’re all stuck in this shit show that is capitalism. I can’t punish the worker for it. 

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u/Andromeda_53 7h ago

Yeah they are sitting the price individually for the work. What's next, renovating my front room, guy comes in, prices it up, and then when he is finished gets a tip?

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u/dajangler 6h ago

Tipping culture is an American thing for sure, but the only place it's universally applicable is seevice industry where the minimum wage is actually lower than minimum wage for other work.

Federal minimum wage for tipped servers is like $2.13/hour.

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u/Ok_Chance_1648 6h ago

That's awful!

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u/dajangler 4h ago

It is, that's why those people who post "I don't tip anywhere!" are just assholes. They system requires people to tip for them to make a living.

Thankfully, I don't think anywhere actually pays federal minimum, and the tipping culture is strong enough it works out, sometimes spectacularly well. I worked with someone who took a pay cut to start working a "real job." She worked at a higher end restaurant. She was... young, attractive, large where it counted, friendly, and had a high tolerence for bullshit. She was bringing home between 65k and 75k a year.

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u/calmwhiteguy 5h ago edited 5h ago

In WA, I've never known someone who gets tattoos not tell me what cash they're pulling for a tattoo tip.

It's expected you tip a couple hundred dollars minimum for anything. From Bellingham to Tacoma I've literally never heard of anyone not pulling $200 cash for a tip on a $500 small cat arm tattoo. I've heard of it probably 40 times.

I dont understand it. Tattoos already cost a lot in the US. It's like tipping on top of a $20 cheap burger. Why?

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u/Ok_Chance_1648 5h ago

What's wa mate?

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u/calmwhiteguy 5h ago

Washington state in the USA.

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u/Ok_Chance_1648 4h ago

I thought it was a state, I wasn't sure. Thanks mate. WA is different to DC innit. That confuses me too at times. Hello from Manchester!

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u/hskrpwr 5h ago

It's about tipping, of course america is the only country still being dumbasses about it!

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u/HickoryStickz 7h ago

They expect a tip which is often a sizable expectation. They have clients that bring them rare pokemon cards or add 50% tip. It’s wild especially when the prices are so high for good work here

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u/Individual-Classic-4 7h ago

Every tattoo I’ve had from my guy he’s quoted me something it’ll take X hours, we’ve sat through the session and then he goes “to be fair I did chat a lot let’s round down and call it X” and it’s easily 10-15% lower than the quote lol.

He’s a good bloke but he moved further away from me so now it’s like an hour to get there

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u/No-Tower-5119 7h ago

I will say in some cases, if you can develop a good rep with your artist, which can be done in one trip, you can bypass the whole tipping thing. Some of these people sit in a studio all day with silent customers. If you can chat with them through an hours long appointment, that’s the tip.