r/memes • • 10h ago

Just... ask for more money?

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u/Far-Reception-4598 10h ago

Tattooists, barbers, hairdresses, taxi drivers, food delivery people, baristas, breakfast or sandwich (but not other fast food)  restaurant workers, servers at "sit down" restaurants, tour guides, bartenders, and (deep sigh) "budtenders". 

Tattooists and hair people are usually self employed and so use the culture of tipping to trick people into thinking their services are cheaper than they are. Everyone else just works in a shitty industry that takes advantage of workers. 

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u/Definitelynotagolem 9h ago

I don’t understand tipping bartenders unless they are mixing you a fancy drink with a bunch of requests. If they’re just filling up a mug with beer idk why that deserves extra money

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u/JellyTigerr 9h ago

You just tip a dollar for the alcohol/soft drink mixes, 2 if you like them. Been a bartender for years and it's not totally expected but very appreciated. It also helps boost your morale when you've been working for 6 hours behind bar and have 2-3 hours of clean up ahead of you when the bar closes.

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u/ObiWan_Cannoli_ 9h ago

It also helps you get your drinks faster when we are busy

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u/Strong-Search-2301 6h ago

That sounds suspiciously like blackmail

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u/ObiWan_Cannoli_ 5h ago

Hey i don’t discriminate

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u/LowProtection8515 6h ago

Thats mad.

In the UK people will make an effort to be served in the order they arrived at the bar. If a bartender asks for your order but you know someone was there before you, most people tell the bartender to serve the other person first.

Tipping to skip the queue would be seen as really rude/crass

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u/pblol 4h ago

Tipping to skip the queue would be seen as really rude/crass

I mean, they have no idea if you're going to tip up front. You can however give a decent sized tip after the first drink, with cash. They'll likely remember you and will prioritize you in the future if it's crowded.

Also, if bar is very busy, it helps to get served quicker if you stand there, actively try to make eye-contact, and be visibly holding (not waving like a jerk) cash.

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u/LowProtection8515 3h ago

Worked in bars for years in the UK. People here just have manners. People get served at the bar in order (sometimes someone getting a big round will let people getting 1 or 2 drinks go before them).

American attitudes to this just seem really rude.

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u/pblol 3h ago

People typically get served in order here too. This was specific for if its pretty crowded. Kinda like this type of situation.

If it's less busy your tip isn't going to help. You just walk up and wait for the people that were there before.

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u/LowProtection8515 2h ago

Yes, that is the situation I am describing. In the UK people still do this and bar tenders arent impressed by tips or seeing cash.

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u/ObiWan_Cannoli_ 5h ago

Lmao welcome to america?

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u/LowProtection8515 3h ago

Quite happy in a country where customers have manners and workers get tip on top of a decent wage.

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u/ObiWan_Cannoli_ 1h ago

Yeah it was a joke