Okay guys, I honestly never thought I’d be making a post like this, but here we are.
Last night, my girlfriend, my roommate, and I had a threesome. And I’m not exaggerating when I say it was the best experience any of us has ever had. All three of us agreed on that afterward.
Now I’m sitting here wondering what the hell happens next.
A little background first.
I’m 29M, 5’11”, slim build. My girlfriend is 22F, around 5’4”, brunette, curvy, with a very feminine figure. My roommate is 30M, about 6’5”, athletic, and a former water polo player.
My girlfriend and I have been together for two years, and we usually hang out at my place. I’ve lived with my roommate for about five years, so we’ve known each other pretty damn well for a long time. We’ve both had other women over throughout the years, so having a girlfriend around the apartment was never anything unusual.
My roommate was also in a relationship for about a year, but he broke up with his girlfriend a month ago.
Here’s the interesting part: for quite a while, there had been this weird tension in the air between the three of us. Nothing obvious ever happened, and nobody openly acknowledged it, but sometimes you could just feel that something was there. A look that lasted a second too long, a certain vibe when we were all hanging out together… little things like that.
I always brushed it off as me overthinking.
Until last night.
We were all at my place, just hanging out, and my girlfriend asked my roommate to give her a foot massage. Completely casually, at least at first.
I didn’t think much of it. We were all comfortable around each other, after all.
But then the atmosphere changed.
One thing led to another, the tension we’d apparently all been feeling for months finally came out into the open, and things escalated much faster than I ever could have predicted.
I’m not going to write a graphic play-by-play, but let’s just say that all three of us were completely into it. There was no awkwardness, no one feeling left out, and no weird competition. It felt surprisingly natural, almost as if we’d somehow skipped the part where things were supposed to be complicated.
And the chemistry? Absolutely insane.
By the end of the night, we were all talking about how incredible the experience had been. It wasn’t just that we enjoyed ourselves. It was the fact that all three of us felt the same way about it.
None of us had ever experienced anything quite like it before.
Now comes the part I can’t stop thinking about.
What happens from here?
My girlfriend and I are still together. My roommate is still my roommate. We all live under the same roof, and now there’s this completely new dynamic between us that didn’t exist before last night.
Part of me wants to believe we can just be mature about it, talk openly, and figure things out. Another part of me realizes that we may have just changed our living situation and our relationships forever.
And honestly? I have no idea whether this was a once-in-a-lifetime experience or the beginning of something none of us expected.
So, Reddit, I need some perspective.
Has anyone ever had a threesome with their partner and a close friend or roommate, and actually managed to keep everything healthy afterward?
Would you talk about boundaries immediately, let things settle for a few days, or just see where things naturally go?
Because right now, I’m still trying to process the fact that something that had been quietly building for months finally happened… and all three of us apparently loved it.
What would you do in my situation? And be honest: are we crazy for even considering that this could happen again?