r/MadeMeSmile • • 18d ago

Good Vibes Two generations. One pocket. 🥁

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I dont know who had more fun :)

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u/WildRabbitz 18d ago

Not only did Grandma have fun and seemed to enjoy herself, but after she was done, just like a typical grandma does, she gives them money to thank them.

This is the fucking sweetest thing I've seen this morning.

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u/Ladyhappy 18d ago

She just pulls the wad out of her pocket. She doesn't even count it.

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u/chiono_graphis 18d ago

Reminds me of how my grandma used to give me a wad of bills. I'd try to refuse but she'd say "shush I know all young people need money. Don't let your mom see it"

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u/fr3n 18d ago

And giving money hidden in the palm of the hand like a drug deal going down. Damn it, I miss my grandma.

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u/Neither-Dentist3019 18d ago

Yeah, my grandma would catch me in the hall and go "psst!" "hey! cmere!" and give me money handshake drug deal style. Then she'd say "don't tell your mom" and do that thing where she points at her eyeballs and points at me. Miss her so much.

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u/Asleep-Corner7402 17d ago

I saw my granny (my dads mum) slip notes into my mums bra 😂 like here you won't take it? I'll make you take it and down the cleavage it went lol

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u/Leumas_ 16d ago

That’s hilarious. My granddaughter sticks her play money in my waistband like a stripper. I’m a middle aged dude and I can NOT figure out why she does it. 😂

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u/primeweevil 18d ago

That was all my Great Uncles when I saw them as a kid. 6 ft tall Sicilian men all giving me $20's like some mob hit was going down. Telling me not to tell my Aunt, who subsequently almost always passed me money either before or after.

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u/LilMissMixalot 18d ago

Same. Leans in, palms me a couple 20s and either says, “Don’t tell your grandfather” or, my personal favourite, “Be good (then a mischievous glint in her eye) but not TOO good.”

She was the reason I have a sense of humour. I miss her.

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u/NSE_TNF89 18d ago

Bro my grandma still does this...I'm 37, own a home and make good money. I went over last week to move some things around and carry some stuff upstairs where she just stores things in extra rooms, and as I was leaving I caught her trying to slip a $50 in my pocket.

I was like, "Grandma, I come over because I want to see you. You do not have to give me money for me to come see and help you with things 😂"

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u/Riribigdogs 17d ago

You’re so lucky to still have your grandma 🥹 I would say to cherish her, but it sounds like you do 🥰

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u/NSE_TNF89 17d ago

She's the only grandparent I have left and I certainly do. I see her at least 2-3 times a week.

She loves telling stories and I love hearing them, so it's a win/win 😁

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u/cire1184 17d ago

You should record her stories so you can pass them down.

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u/Unraveled_Burrito 18d ago

I'm glad to know this is a grandma thing 😁 makes me miss mine

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u/SaltKick2 18d ago

probably a couple werthers in there too

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u/GuestAdventurous7586 18d ago

This video nearly made me cry 😂, wtf is happening to me.

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u/Test4Echooo 18d ago edited 18d ago

“What is this salty discharge?!” - J. Seinfeld

You’re only human, my friend, nothing is wrong with you🖤

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u/Aggressive_Walk378 18d ago

Phyllis Collins

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u/Low-Inevitable7140 18d ago

She's been waiting for this moment for all her life!

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u/Optimal-Steak9334 18d ago

Oh lord.

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u/_Breakfast_Burrito 18d ago

Can you feel it coming in the air tonight?

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u/Particular-Cherry138 18d ago

And nailed it!

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u/GoalieLax_ 18d ago

Sigh I went and Google the name and then realized...

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u/FuckYeaSeatbelts 18d ago

For the lazy and/or young: Phil Collins is a well known drummer and a member of the band Genesis.

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u/Vintage-Grievance 18d ago

Same Phil Collins who worked on providing soundtracks for Disney films, I presume.

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u/Bitter-Value-1872 18d ago

Most notably the Tarzan movie

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u/Vintage-Grievance 18d ago

Yup, and Brother Bear, too.

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u/TheLordVader1978 18d ago

Ya, him and Elton John pretty much ruled the Disney movie soundtrack back in the 90s

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u/Vintage-Grievance 18d ago

Agreed.

It was just a different scene in those days, where entertainment was front and center, and marketing was in the backseat- not in the trunk- but it wasn't like you were watching the movie the entire time, going, "That will be on the shelves in Walmart soon".

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u/ZhouLe 18d ago

To add: Phil is roughly the same age as the woman in the OP video (75), but hasn't played drums in about 20 years because of health reasons. Many years of touring and performing were rough on him and caused nerve damage in his neck and hands, making it to where he can no longer grip or feel drumsticks in his hands. He toured with Genesis in 2022, though only did vocals, and his son Nic played drums.

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u/Trackbikes 18d ago

Oi Buster, now I feel old

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u/mcbaginns 18d ago

What a strange way to describe him lol.

He was the lead singer too. He was responsible for the reverb drum sound that all 80s music had. He is one of three musicians to sell over 100 million records as a band member and a solo artist with the other two being Michael Jackson and Paul McCartney.

"he was a drummer and member of a band" tells the uninitiated nothing lol

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u/pretentious_handle 18d ago

I can LITERALLY hear your sigh. Hats off for making me and my wife crack up this morning!

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u/Nina-Ninja123 18d ago

About the sigh…

I can feel it, hanging in the air tonight.

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u/kenkenobi78 18d ago

Phyllis was my grans name so I can confirm. Grandma

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u/slackjack2014 18d ago

Looks like a classically trained drummer the way she holds the left stick. Grandma knows what’s she’s doing.

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u/breath_ofthemild 18d ago

Band director here. That’s traditional grip, which is used in either jazz bands and corps/show style marching bands. She was in one or the other (very likely both), and if she’s still able to move like this, was an absolute monster. The other guys are great, but Nana in her prime would have absolutely smoked them

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u/Primary_Assistant742 18d ago

Former DCI drummer here, but a little younger than this woman. (GenX) Had the same thought. We all learned tradish.

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u/BotulismBanquet 18d ago

I bet memaw won high drums at nats back in the day! (I’m a former Jonz)

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u/Primary_Assistant742 18d ago

Nice! I was in a much smaller corps, but my instructors were also SCV ( and one was in Blue Devils too ) when they were younger.

This granny is also really short compared to the guys, so the drum is not at all at a natural height for her. Was thinking that on the rewatch.

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u/BotulismBanquet 18d ago

Yeah and her enthusiasm is so nice! Having a blast trading 4’s with the youth

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u/tf_inuyasha87 18d ago

The minute I saw the grips, I knew she likely had ages ot performance and training under her belt

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u/ncopp 18d ago

My first thought was what years she would have been playing in her Highschool/college marching band?

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u/Soulmemories 18d ago

rofl she still plays in a marching band. Seed and Feed in Atlanta.

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u/____-_______-_--_-_- 18d ago

In another life, I would have loved to have been a band director… ended up a nurse

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u/breath_ofthemild 18d ago

Either way, you were aiming for a career with 12-14 hour work days

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u/gromit5 18d ago

she does and she loved it back then it seems!

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u/Humble_Initiative_90 18d ago

She definitely knows what she's doing, but at the 1:28 mark where she gets excited is pure musician recognizing skill. She was having fun but she was having more fun with a skilled dancing partner. Gah I miss music.

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u/M0NSTERDUNX 18d ago

This shit just went and made my day. Get it, Nana!

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u/tritear 18d ago

"Grandma! Beatbox!"

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u/vytas315 18d ago

Love that she gives them money at the end 🤣❤️

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u/captaincmdoh 18d ago

I thought this was AI cause ain't no way Nana have that much rhythm and movement ability in her age.... Then I realized it was NYC and I just sat back and said "YUP"

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u/starryeyedq 18d ago

I saw it on Instagram and she actually commented. Profile was totally legit. There were comments from bunch of people who had worked with or learned from her as well!

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u/skitz4me 18d ago

I'd watch seasons and seasons of this show.

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u/The_Blackfish_ 18d ago

The two balding dudes in the background absolutely loving it. She tips them at the end too!!

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u/Hey_Laaady 18d ago edited 18d ago

Oh, I didn't think she looked cute. Cute would be if she came by with some milk and cookies. She has had some serious training and she looked like a badass.

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u/doctormink 18d ago

I gotta admit, what made me even happier was seeing she was not only jamming, but also had the cogntive/bodily awareness to keep her belongings safe. I'm the kind of idiot who would be tossing my purse aside in a fit of reckless abandonment if I got to jam on the drums with dudes this talented.

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u/Quiet_Falcon2622 18d ago

And she’s got moves, when she’s not drumming…❤️

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u/Ranglergirl 18d ago

Pure joy on her face. Can’t watch without smiling.

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u/Kitchen_Guest577 18d ago

I guess she had to show them the old skills! Love when older people show they still got it! This is life ladies and gentlemen 🤘😎🤘

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u/BuffaloInCahoots 18d ago

They knew the second she went with the traditional grip she knew what she was doing.

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u/UnmolestedBell 18d ago

This was so fun to watch. Not enough mentions of the young men that showed respect and let nana do her thing. They treated her with respect from the beginning and when they saw that she knew what she was doing, they sat back and vibed with her. Props to them for bringing an open mind for the way they approached this!

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u/4444Grains 18d ago

I love the way they trade off playing!

I’m not a musician so I’m not sure if this is something basic any musician can do…but the way they instinctively know when to play solo, when to take over and when to play together (with, obviously, no rehearsal) is so much fun to watch.

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u/DrThunderbolt 18d ago

Music can kind of be like conversations where theres a certain pattern to it where people naturally know where someone is ending so they can start, or certain indications that they're passing it off to you.

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u/4444Grains 18d ago

Ah, that makes sense!

I was impressed by how easily the older woman did that—since she probably doesn’t play every day like the younger guys. But, like others have said, it’s muscle memory kicking in!

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u/Sienile 18d ago

She definitely used to play all the time. That grip and cadence aren't something you just do out of the blue one day. Granny is a former pro drummer for sure.

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u/Signature_Strong 18d ago

Not "former": Current. Avtive. Creative. Talented

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u/BasementDesk 18d ago

For not being a musician, you got the name exactly right. This kind of thing is called "trading," typically "trading 8's" or "trading 4's" - meaning every 8 or four measures. I do 8 measures, then you do 8 measures. That's exactly what they were doing here. (with a few missed measures for a bit of showboating) ;)

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u/Nahuel-Huapi 18d ago

That's why the title refers to the "pocket". When jazz musicians are improvising, it's called being "in the pocket."

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u/scottoro 18d ago

This is the type of stuff that actually makes America great

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u/Electrical_Wrap_4572 18d ago

Say it louder for those in the back!

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u/petrockveterinarian 18d ago

The rhythm did not miss her

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u/CraptasticallyFun 18d ago

We are giving Grandma all the love, but can we please give these young men some as well? Look how they celebrate her! 😍

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u/Electrical_Sky_4904 18d ago

They are equally as talented and entertaining

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u/CraptasticallyFun 18d ago

True! They are giving her a space and delighted by the moment of surprise that comes with her presence. It’s lovely 🥰

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u/freedomachiever 18d ago

we just witnessed a person traveling back through time for a brief moment and we are all better for it

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u/Neat_Gas9264 18d ago

America persisting despite Maga filth.

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u/Prestigious_Yam8901 18d ago

Through Music!

People underestimate how the beauty of music brings us all together, especially people that can play music together.

One of the first instincts a toddler has is to dance to the sweet, beautiful, sound of music.

This is why music and the arts are so important!

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u/the_headless_hunt 18d ago

Music and food are great uniters

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u/Thatguythatdrew 18d ago

Its not just music. Its Art.

The act of creating and then sharing in that creation. Its fundamental social bonding.

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u/Saint-Michael901 18d ago

Always has always will

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u/Downtown_Statement87 18d ago

If you look for stuff like this you can find it everywhere. There's a reason people from all over wanted to come here, and that reason still exists. I refuse to give up on what's good about this place just because a bunch of fascists are currently dumbassing all over.

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u/CrueGuyRob 18d ago

"A bunch of fascists dumbassing all over" is how I will forever describe this nonsense era for the U.S.

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u/finix2409 18d ago

Is this is liberal hellhole we keep hearing about?

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u/gitsgrl 18d ago

You know when she takes that classic grip position that she’s a percussionist something magical is about to happen

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u/Virtual-Pie-3616 18d ago

I've been a drummer for 30 years and seeing how efficient older people are w their movements still impresses me to no end.

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u/mopbuvket 18d ago

Gram gram still got the jam with the bam bam

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u/capybarafan4 18d ago

Though it's not being done out of malice, people keep infantilizing her in the comments. Elderly folks are still capable of doing things with skill. You can tell she was already an experienced and technically proficient musician by the way she plays. And she's still got it 🔥🥁

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u/Idiotology101 18d ago

Granny got skills, there’s decades of experience in those hands.

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u/TrollBoothBilly 18d ago

This is so joyful.

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u/pretentious_handle 18d ago

She tipped at the end AND sported the purse the whole time dropping beats - badass status!

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u/Shipwrecking_siren 18d ago

There just comes an age when you become one with the purse… it happens both gradually and all of a sudden.

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u/Zack_Knifed 18d ago

America will always persist despite the best efforts of those racist fuckers. Get it, nana!

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u/Michee82much 18d ago

A made me smile post really, REALLY made me smile. So precious and thank you 🙏🏼

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u/Duffy1978 18d ago

This is what actually makes America great

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u/TrustButArchive 18d ago

I knew grandma was going to bang it when I saw traditional grip. I'd put money on her being a military drummer in her youth.

Source: Am a grandpa drummer.

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u/Nobodyelse1234 18d ago

Is fucking beautiful ❤️

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u/Desperate_Jicama219 17d ago

Can I just say, this is the America I want.

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u/schmoo0 18d ago

Damn I miss living in big cities. The serendipity of every day life is so joyous.

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u/YallaHammer 18d ago

This is what it looks like when America is doing something right ✅

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u/realRaiderDave 18d ago

Remember moments like these. When division is being sowed, and cultural borders are being drawn. We are just primates who will live 80 years on this mudball if* we're lucky. Lets enjoy eachother company while our time lasts.

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u/Ok_Ideal_6383 17d ago

So cool! This is the real America!

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u/keirmeister 17d ago

Yes, and this is NYC, baby! It’s this exact kind of energy that I really loved when I lived there.

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u/Repulsive_Stock9400 18d ago

I feel like people aren't going to be ready for Gen X senior citizens.

We're gonna be so fucking cool and it's just gonna blow all of your minds.

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u/SoftConsideration82 18d ago

oh my sweet summer child... thats what every generation thinks... the free love acid and heroin hippies from the 60s became boomers...

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u/nea_fae 18d ago

Lol so true, I thought my disco cocaine mom was never going to grow up, now she complains about customer service and can’t access online banking 😩

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u/V65Pilot 17d ago

I'm 61. I mentioned to the youngsters that I work with that I'm going to go fly a glider next summer. The room got really quiet. Christ....wait until they figure out all the crazy shit I've already done.

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u/AmazingResponse338 18d ago

People forget old people were once young and some were cool AF

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u/audiofreak9 18d ago

Joy pure joy

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u/LesFogginGoh 18d ago

Glad to see Ringo is doing well…

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u/Bright-Owl-3515 18d ago

Omg she is so cool.

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u/Gold_Past_6346 18d ago

What a great video to start the day with!

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u/washtucna 17d ago

She's using a French grip. She's well educated in percussion!

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u/deadreckoning 18d ago

Love it 🤍💛

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u/AnybodySmall2928 18d ago

She's still got it, I bet she was a beast back in her day 🔥

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u/drgs100 18d ago

Game recognises game.

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u/SeaworthinessSad7145 18d ago

Man, every single person in that video looks like they are experiencing pure joy. That made my night.

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u/exgiexpcv 18d ago

You could walk right past a person not suspect for a second what treasures are contained within. This was magic.

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u/Old-Check2867 18d ago

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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u/RepulsiveLoquat418 18d ago

that's such a perfect title for this post, too. bravo op.

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u/LogicallLunacy 18d ago

Muscle memory.

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u/123abcde321 18d ago

Once a drummer always a drummer. Great stuff!

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u/Ok-Jelly604 18d ago

How awesome.  Skills of the players aside, the joy and camaraderie is touching.  

This is how humans behave when they aren’t lead by political, institutional, and corporate propoganda.   

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u/putadelaplage 18d ago

Auntie probably used to kill it in the drum circles at Grateful Dead concerts back in the day

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u/lawaythrow 18d ago

This is pure joy!

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u/Nora19 18d ago

This is just great fun!!!

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u/Timfromfargo 18d ago

This is just great.

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u/PurplePrincess1991 18d ago

Go awf granny ! 😍

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u/Parronski 18d ago

Fuck. YES. I needed this today thank you.

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u/GoodGuyGr3g 18d ago

Def made me smile. Granny was vibing. Beautiful moment sharing your passion with another generation.

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u/rustybrazenfire 18d ago

I don't know her name, but to me her name is Hope. Maybe Joy.

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u/MacSchluffen 18d ago

That’s the shit the internet was made for

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u/Bellabbey1236 18d ago

They are all just too damn good! And cute 💖 what fun! 

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u/PuzzledExaminer 18d ago

Her technique is still there 😂

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u/geroberts09 18d ago

I love seeing people come together because of shared interest and passion. This is a beautiful representation of how to be human.

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u/mnth241 18d ago

Grandma did NOT come to play! 👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏 to those kids for letting her shine.

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u/FoxfoxrceFive 18d ago

Its really hard to watch this and not start groovin.

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u/debugstatement 18d ago

This one of the few times r/mademesmile actually made me smile.

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u/Positive_Seat_975 18d ago

I love this. So NY. Neither of them may originally be from here, but them coming together at that moment to do this makes this city so great

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u/yeahboyeee1 18d ago

Hell yeah!

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u/Guzmanv_17 18d ago

Prob one of the coolest moments

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u/Responsible-Owl-5739 18d ago

Made my day. ❤️

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u/WhereMyWeirdosAt 18d ago

Mannnnn and Nana tipped? If I was them boys, I would have emptied the tip jar and given it to her. She looks like she had so much fun!

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u/75mb 18d ago

Man that was beautiful

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u/Affectionate_Rest_0 18d ago

We need more of this in the world.

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u/Farmer_Ted_ 18d ago

Faith in humanity restored.

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u/crazy-bisquit 18d ago

I love this so much! It’s so cool on soooo many levels.

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u/Viscious-viking 18d ago

Happiness!

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u/Dreamlion_Inc 18d ago

This could be humanity. In different shapes, forms, and expressions

all the fucking time

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u/lowkeyLobotomized 18d ago

Granny's got groove

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u/AGrandNewAdventure 18d ago

She's so happy!

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u/Ih8teMyInlawsTheySuk 18d ago

This is one of the best videos I’ve seen in this sub. Just awesome and heartwarming.

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u/Shtoinkity_shtoink 18d ago

I don’t know why maybe I’m just going through something with this brought tears my eyes

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u/PaltryCharacter 18d ago

What an incredible moment to capture and share

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u/RevGee73 18d ago

Watched this with wide grin on my face!

Awesome!

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u/imlordreaver 18d ago

Grandma's got skill!

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u/xamininglife70 18d ago

These are the type of videos I love seeing on the internet

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u/Ok-Bandicoot1529 18d ago

Granny living her best life

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u/bfro11_969 18d ago

This is an accurate representation of America we don’t get to see too often on social media.

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness_583 18d ago

NOW THIS IS HOW

YOU ROCK On.

OLD SKOL & New School

🌟🌟🌟🌟

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u/Absolute_Bob 17d ago

A lot of older people just diddle, but that granny's out ripping paradiddles.

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u/2013jcwmini 18d ago

Nana got more grooves than a bag of Ruffles!

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u/Born-Loan8508 18d ago

This is the world I love. Need more of this.

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u/Normal_Spread8423 18d ago

Granny went to Texas A&M😭

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u/GiftHorse2020 18d ago

Age ain't nuthin' but a number!

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u/Bubbaganewsh 18d ago

Just two generations very far apart having a blast, we need more of this. 

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u/Equivalent-Finish-80 18d ago

That smile says everything!

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u/musememo 18d ago

Music is for all ♥️

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u/drittzO 18d ago

I can tell by the way she holds the drum sticks that this is old news for her...

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u/EstablishBassline 18d ago

You know shit is about to go down once she whips out the traditional grip.

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u/japhydean 18d ago

this is the best thing i’ve seen in awhile

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u/Educational-Chain-80 18d ago

This made me so happy

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u/jumbee85 18d ago

This is what +10k hours of practice gets you. The muscle memory doesnt leave you

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u/ArgyleGhoul 18d ago

One band, one sound.

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u/chopotico 18d ago

She was way more in the pocket. Young man rushing just a bit.

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u/Ommec 18d ago

That some good shit, granny!

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u/Madwoman-of-Chaillot 18d ago

Well, this was just fucking delightful.

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u/kendragon 18d ago

I'm grinning like a complete idiot here. This was fantastic.

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u/extrastupidone 18d ago

LOVE this gam-gam!

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u/LauraTil 18d ago

Thank you for posting thissss!!!! 🩷🩷🩷

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u/Mammoth-Mud-9609 18d ago

There are lots of young people out there who just love it when old people break the stereotype and just go for something like this.

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u/lebronswanson4 18d ago

That makes me smile

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u/xBatnerd1970 18d ago

Just wow!

The look on her face says it all. She is loving life and these kids are loving her.

Is there anything cooler than watching people bringing joy as they do the things they love?

AND she dropped cash at the end!

Respect. 🙏

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u/wap2005 18d ago

Old people used to be really cool, ask about their stories, they may have a hard time thinking of random stories so be specific when you ask them. I guarantee they'll surprise you.

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u/Krinks1 18d ago

Granny got groove!

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u/Cuisinfarts 18d ago

Feeling Go Go vibes…