r/solotravel • u/hardcorebaddie • 19h ago
Oceania Solo travelling Australia for 6 weeks and feeling lonely and disappointed – how do I turn it around? (F26)
I (F, 26) have been travelling solo in Australia on a working holiday visa (for which I quit my job back home) for six weeks now, and it is not going the way I hoped. I am comfortable on my own, but I am by myself about 90% of the time and I really miss having someone to experience things with and to make decisions with.
I have met people through apps, WhatsApp groups and a few hostels, mostly for a day or a few hours. But most are heading in a different direction, and the ones on a similar route did not really click. I prefer real friendships over quick, superficial ones, which is hard while moving around. Tours are the only place where it works for me.
I am also struggling to make decisions on my own. I hoped that would improve, but I am constantly stressed about planning, and I was ill this past week, probably from exhaustion and stress. On top of that, Australia has not lived up to my expectations. The plan was to stay in Australia for about 8 months if I would love a certain place where I would want to live, which is not the case. Right now my plan is to go to Thailand and the Philippines after finishing the east coast, but I am scared this feeling will follow me. I really want to make the best out of the remainder of this trip but I don’t know how to turn this around.
My questions are thus:
- What helped you meet people you actually clicked with, not just for a night out?
- Has anyone turned around a trip that felt like this?
- Any tips for finding a travel buddy for a few weeks?