I hate even having to ask this but my walls are paper thin and my neighbors have been bullying me since they moved in. I always talk very quietly because of it, moving isn’t an option, but I’m disabled and have family come to help me out and they talk VERY loudly.
I have asked them to be quieter and I feel horrible doing so. I don’t mind the rest of the time but when they’re in my home, I ask them to because I don’t want the neighbors having more to mock. Especially when it’s about sensitive matters. My family don’t take me seriously about the neighbors which is hard in itself, and I’d like to not be bothered by them but I really am. I’ve never had issues with neighbors before and think that if you’re joined on to someone else’s home, you want to be on good terms with them.
So how can I ask the people who help me to talk quieter without them thinking I’m being rude to them, when they don’t take seriously how much it impacts me otherwise? Yes it’s ridiculous having to whisper in my home but while they might not care what others think, I really do care about not giving the bullies more to target.
Thanks