I'm looking for some honest perspectives from hosts who occasionally rent out their own homes while travelling.
I rent out my personal apartment in Copenhagen when I'm abroad. It's my actual home, with my furniture, personal belongings, valuables, etc., rather than a dedicated rental property.
I recently accepted a seven-night booking from guests with several excellent reviews. Something about the communication initially made me a little hesitant, although looking back, their messages were mostly polite and fairly ordinary.
Shortly after check-in, the guests complained about parking. My listing advertises free on-street parking, but spaces are subject to availability and aren't guaranteed.
They said they'd had to park 3 km away, accused me of misleading them, and stated that they expected financial compensation. They also mentioned an error in my key collection instructions, which I acknowledged was my mistake.
What bothered me wasn't necessarily the complaint itself, but the rather accusatory and demanding tone. Especially considering that they also explicitly stated they were otherwise very happy with the apartment.
I offered two solutions:
- A goodwill refund of approximately 10% if they wished to continue their stay.
- An early checkout with a full refund of the unused nights if the parking situation made the accommodation unsuitable.
They politely accepted the 10% refund and chose to stay. I subsequently contacted Airbnb Support to document the disagreement, and they confirmed the matter was resolved.
So technically, everything is fine. But psychologically, I'm having a surprisingly difficult time with it.
I'm currently in Asia, thousands of miles away, and I suddenly feel deeply uncomfortable having these people in my personal home.
I don't trust them anymore, even though I recognise that there's no actual evidence they'll mistreat my property. I've found myself worrying about my belongings, anticipating further problems.
The financial aspect is completely irrelevant to me. Frankly, if I could turn back time, I'd happily forgo the entire booking income rather than deal with this feeling.
Part of me regrets ignoring my initial hesitation, but another part recognises that I may be overreacting to an unpleasant yet ultimately resolved disagreement.
My question to other hosts isn't really about the parking dispute or compensation. It's about the feeling of losing trust in guests who are staying in your personal home.
Have you experienced something similar? Particularly when hosting remotely?
Did you simply let the reservation run its course? Did the anxiety subside? Or did experiences like this make you reconsider renting out your personal residence altogether?
I'm genuinely interested in candid perspectives, including if you think I'm overreacting.