r/Damnthatsinteresting • • 4h ago

Video New controversial Ad in Ireland about consent

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u/WingDairu 4h ago

This thread is full of people who really don't understand the point:

It's not telling you grandparent hugs are bad. It's telling you that ignoring other people's boundaries REGARDING THEIR OWN PHYSICAL BODY is bad.

This is especially important with kids, because it's important to teach kids that they're allowed to exercise bodily autonomy. If kids aren't taught that, it becomes far easier for someone to take advantage of them being trained to allow touching they don't want because they feel like they have to.

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u/_scriptofthebridge_ 2h ago

Spot on. An ex of mine had a young son. He would insist on his son hugging me goodbye. I had to interrupt with "He doesn't have to hug me if he doesn't want to" one too many times. Ads like this are absolutely necessary.