r/TopsAndBottoms • • 8h ago

Bottoms: Do you think thick cock is more appealing than long thin ones? and which one you prefer? NSFW

59 Upvotes

r/TopsAndBottoms • • 3h ago

Bottoms: What style and position do you like most? NSFW

15 Upvotes

I like doggy style with my thong panties pulled to the side..not sure why but it makes me feel so wide and naughty and girly >< what about you?


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 3h ago

Is there anything a small dick can do that a big one can't? NSFW

11 Upvotes

r/TopsAndBottoms • • 12h ago

When did you last get laid? How was it and how did it happen? NSFW

38 Upvotes

For me it was Sunday - we spent the day naked and alternated between having sex, playing video games, and smoking weed.


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 11h ago

What is a sex act that makes you fantasize about it all day if you plan to do it later NSFW

36 Upvotes

Like makes you distracted at work because you can’t stop thinking about how hot it’s gonna be later?

Like tonight I’m planning on edging my boyfriend with my mouth for a long while, and I’m so excited to get a big load built up for me to swallow at the end. It’s hard for me to focus today because I keep thinking about it for later.

What’s some of the sex acts that are so exciting that they distract you if you’re planning on doing it?


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 12h ago

Ok to be really forward? NSFW

30 Upvotes

I have a first date with a really sexy top and I'd much rather have sex first, then go out. We're meeting at his place. Is it too forward to ask him to fuck me before we leave? For bottom reasons, that's sometimes a lot easier than waiting. Plus it'd be hot to spend the evening already having been creampied. We haven't directly discussed sex, but I feel like we both really want it... or is that too presumptuous 😬


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 3h ago

Am I the only Top who prefers my Bottom’s dick to be smaller than mine? NSFW

3 Upvotes

I love big booty bottoms with medium/small dicks because when he’s riding me I think it’s so cute getting his dick hard and having him nut all over me. Hung bottoms are personally just a turn off for me because they make me feel insecure and less dominant lol. Plus average to small dick bottoms just have a natural aura of grace and class about themselves and they often have fat asses so the contrast is great. No offense to any hung bottoms out there yall are valid, just personally not for me.


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 8h ago

What are your experiences with dick size? NSFW

6 Upvotes

As a size-obsessed bottom, I’m curious for what everyone else’s experience is with size. (particularly dick size ahah)

What is the biggest hard dick that you’ve seen, and what were the circumstances? What about biggest softie you’ve seen? Biggest you’ve touched/taken? What was it like?

What about the smallest you’ve seen/played with? What was it like?

Do you prefer being a similar size to your partner, or do you like a size difference? Are you happy with your own size? If you could be any size, what would you be? what size do you prefer in your partner?


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 5h ago

Any idea how to “pinkfy” the private area? NSFW

2 Upvotes

I want my private area specifically the butt hole to be pink or as pink as it could be, any help on how to do that as quick as possible and most importantly as pink as possible


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 6h ago

Giving Myself Hands Free Orgasms? NSFW

5 Upvotes

I have noticed this phenomenon with myself and wonder if that is the case for others: over the years it’s become more common for me to cum hands free while getting fucked, at this point it’s pretty much how I cum during sex.

However, I noticed I don’t achieve hands free orgasm as easily/quickly while masturbating with a dildo as I do while getting fucked by a top. I think I know my body and my spots well enough but I just find it almost funny that I’m not as good at achieving it by myself as I am with the help of a top? 😅


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 3h ago

Do you like routine vs being spontaneous? NSFW

2 Upvotes

So with my boyfriend over time we’ve got into more of a routine with certain things. Like every single morning he’ll go for a shower and then expect me to be waiting on my knees for when he gets out. I’ll swallow his load and then he feels we can both continue with our days.

Now, I really enjoy getting to suck his cock every morning, it’s as much of a treat for me as it is for him. But sometimes it feels like I’m quite happy when it’s over. He’s quite dominant so it’s not unusual for him to just grab my head and fuck it until he cums. Almost like it’s just a task he needs to do.

It’s fun but I sometimes wonder if a quality over quantity could be better, allowing spontaneity to build a bit more.

Which do you guys prefer


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 7h ago

Is it normal for me to only want to bottom because of my small size. NSFW

3 Upvotes

r/TopsAndBottoms • • 1d ago

Do you like eye contact when fucking/getting fucked? NSFW

97 Upvotes

r/TopsAndBottoms • • 10h ago

Bottoms or Tops: Possible problem with DP. NSFW

4 Upvotes

For the past few months I have been an “on call” bottom for a couple (Top & Vers) and when they use me they typically take turns buttfucking me or spit roast me. Two weeks they wanted to DP me, I was hesitant because of their sizes but excited and agreed. For five days in a row thats what they did and it went extremely well. After that they went on vacation and I didn’t have anything in my butthole since then.

A couple days after they last DPed my butthole it start to itch severely and about a day after that it hurt a lot like it was raw. Like it hurts to wipe and I have to be very gentle in the shower/bath.

I know it’s not an STD because they are a married couple and are clean and have rules for me… if I get used by someone else I need to get tested before they will use me again and stuff like that. There is no blood or anything that I can see.

Has anyone either been DPed or done something that stretched your butthole a lot or have you done that to a bottom and experienced this?

I am sorry for the long post and I apologize if this is not the appropriate place to post. Thank you in advance for any advice!!


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 20h ago

Amputee bottoms.. NSFW

16 Upvotes

Hey y'all, trying to get a pulse test here. I'm a bottom, 35nb, male presenting, 5'7 and 118lbs. I'm covered in tattoos, in shape, healthy and a great bottom. I'm getting a below knee amputation in a few months and want to see how many tops would be turned off by this.

To answer questions ahead of time.. i was born with a deformed foot that has already been reconstructed, has nerve and circulation issues.. it's not worth saving in the long run.


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 8h ago

Is it a cliche for in-denial gay men to think their gay porn habit is just a fetish or kink? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Did you guys go through this? How long did it take you to be like - ahh it might not JUST be a porn kink?


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 17h ago

Top here, question for bottom NSFW

9 Upvotes

What you guys love at first when meet at place and what you love after making out ???


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 1d ago

Boy Pussy NSFW

40 Upvotes

I always hear from straight men how much they love V but do tops love our boy pussy's that much too? Does it feel just as great?


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 1d ago

Good cocksuckers get slapped NSFW

60 Upvotes

Anyone else like getting slapped while sucking dick? I love when the top slaps My face while sucking dick.


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 23h ago

I hate my body hair, I need help bottoms NSFW

8 Upvotes

I hate my body hair. I find hair attractive on others. But on me it makes me feel dirty. As a relatively feminine bottom I wish I could be completely hairless like twinks on TikTok. However I am extremely hairy. It takes me hours to shave my legs just for the to feel like sandpaper a day later. I’ve tried everything from waxing, raizors, hair removing creams. Nothing last more than a few days. I been wanting about laser but I got quoted 900 dollars for 5 sessions JUST for my armpits. Getting my legs done alone would be thousands of dollars. I need some tips guys I want to be as smooth as possible without spending hours shaving and hundreds of dollars.

I also want to add I’ve tried to start loving my body more however i just don’t feel like myself with body hair. And I’ve notice that guys who hit me up they’re always looking for smooth body hair it’s a turn off for them.


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 21h ago

How often are masc or DL guys attracted to masculine bottoms? NSFW

4 Upvotes

Hello, I'm new here. I would just like ask based on everyone's experience. How often is it for like masc or DL guys to be attracted to a masc bottom?

Growing up I've always worshipped men and men's bodies. This led me to being frequent with going to the gym and building myself, I've also been frequent with farm activities before going to the city, I've been very proud of how my glutes and pecs have developed because excluding from it being my preference, I read a research that said men have a more sexual reaction to boobs and butts.

The thing is, is that due to those years, I've built a very masculine image, I'm kind of tall as well, and I always try to be a gentleman being a man with 3 older sisters. My friends call me their most straightest gay friend, and all the guys that have been attracted to me have been bottoms thinking I was a top. There are some that say they're vers, and I did try to open myself up to being vers aswell but I'm such a bottom, I wanna be dominated, pinned-down, to be submissive, anything that is related to serving a man.

I have had sexual experiences with top too though but, I don't know, it felt like they would've preferred a feminine bottom, one that looks petite, gorgeous, a beautiful man. I have had my fair share of trying to imitate them a little bit, though I couldn't be pretty, I made sure I have no hair, smoothen my skin, clean myself down there. But, I don't know, I still feel like I'm lacking to being a proper bottom. I do realize that this may have been a case of self contradicting desire, like why want the type of men, that don't want the type I am, because I also realize that the masculine men that's I'm attracted to, and by masculine I don't mean muscle men, like a man man, are the kind that want a feminine partner, like to protect, or care. I guess I'm also kind of insecure of every feminine bottom out there. I'm not sure if I'm making any sense but I hope you understand what I'm trying say. I'm sorry this is getting so long, I've been told i'm such a yapper once given the chance to speak


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 17h ago

Quick question for tops, NSFW

1 Upvotes

What makes a chubby bottom hot for you?


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 1d ago

Tops: I‘m really curious how confident you are in your skills NSFW

13 Upvotes

I have no interest in ever being a top and I‘d rather be in chasity anyways so topping is out of question. So I‘m interested what it‘s like for you.

So my question(s) is really simple: Do you think or even KNOW you‘re good at it? Did you need many different bottoms or many times with the same bottom to figure it out or is it a natural skill for some? Do bottoms tell you and maybe even cum handsfree or do you think the cumming handsfree is more a head thing for them than you fuckikg them?


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 1d ago

[Update] Bottom and orgy NSFW

5 Upvotes

Took your guy advice and have a orgy the on Sunday and I concluded that I like suck cock jerking off with guy’s dick and and my dick at the some time and and getting fuck so in the future I will go to orgy or maybe host one.
https://www.reddit.com/r/TopsAndBottoms/s/7oVM2E7N30


r/TopsAndBottoms • • 1d ago

I wanna have sex with someone I meet in a non-sexual situation NSFW

9 Upvotes

Every guy I’ve had sex with, I’ve met through a hookup app, an orgy, a gay bar, or at a gay spa. I really wanna try just meeting someone at, say, an event or a party, or any situation not specifically designed to lead to a hookup.

I’m not interested in romance, though. And I’m a top. Wouldn’t the bottom need time to prepare? And what if you get it seriously wrong and the guy’s straight? But I’m sure this has happened a lot with y’all, so I’d love to hear your advice for making it happen.