First thing's first, I've had my fair share of amazing platonic friendships so it's not exactly what I'm looking for nowadays. Just wanted to throw it out there.

I'm basically looking for someone who doesn't think twice before saying what she's thinking about. Be it flirting, or making jokes or anything at all. Someone who just says things as they come and somehow makes it fun!

I like conversations that have personality. Teasing, playful roasting, questionable jokes, flirting that's bold but still fun. The kind where you're not sitting there wondering what to say next, it just flows and occasionally goes off the rails. Clever fucking banter!

Would be nice to find someone I can talk to late nights, switching between dumb jokes, random thoughts, and venting sessions. Someone I can flirt with, laugh with, and just be comfortable around without feeling like I need to filter everything.

tiny bit about me: I watch at least one movie almost every night and have been doing that for years, so I will probably make you watch something with me at some point. I like singing, video games, and just generally keeping things fun, I'm a fun loving person.

If you can handle a bit of chaos, don't get awkward around flirting, and aren't afraid of jokes that make you judge yourself, we'll get along just fine.

PS: I'm in the US for now

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25 [M4F] Online - Up for phone sex? If you want to moan louder than ever, ping me.

If you are in the mood for some real hot sesh, you are at the right place. With a fair amount of experiences, I'm saying this with confidence that I can make you moan louder.

I'm good with my fingers and tongue, I mean I can type and talk well ;)

If you are someone who's good at this game, slide into my DMs and I'll slide into you.

To start with, CNC is not a misogyny kink mostly. For a lot of women CNC is a hot validation kink. For some it is reliving a past trauma, but mostly a woman asking for CNC just loves the feeling of being desired so much he takes you against your will. It makes her feel hot. It makes her feel like a primal object of sex, and she likes it. Good for her.

I’m just saying if you are texting me about wanting to try out misogyny, know that you getting roughed up is not necessarily misogyny. It could be done with some disrespect, I agree. But it is much better done as a CNC kink where you inform your partner ahead that you’re looking to be roughed in a certain way.

I, madam, am a misogyny fetishist. I'm not here to validate you and make you feel like a goddess that got violated by filth. I'm here to invalidate you and make you feel like filth serving an abusive man like he’s god.

I'm here to affirm to you that you are not desirable. To confirm your gnawing suspicion that you, with all your success, attractiveness, and intellect, are ultimately worthless. I love this bit. To look into your face and announce to it that you are ugly, stupid, and a fucking failure like you were always afraid you were.

This kind of emotional sadism begets a complementary emotional masochism. The women who have done it with me, at least the ones who didn’t safeword and fly away, did it for two reasons. One, they needed the hate, the degradation, and the feeling of being punished. Two, they get off to it.

If that speaks to you, you should message me. And when you message me tell me which of these degenerate masochistic cunts you identify with.

The just out of college techie who took my big toe into her smooth cleanshaven cunt to get kicked and fucked at the same time. The well paid consultant who booked a plush room to lick my boots and offer herself with an open mouth to be pissed upon and into. The trauma slut that got fucked missionary listening to how she deserved everything that happened to her.

If you know the flavour of fucked up you are, I will be able to use you better. In return for all the considerable abuse I mete out to you, I expect you to keep me amused and pleased. It’s only fair.

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A little about me: I'm an engineer, around 6'4 tall, and usually out for late-night walks or bike rides when everything’s quiet. I love cooking, staying active, and unwinding with just the right tv show.

I’m looking for someone who’s fun to talk to, confident, and enjoys a strong connection, both in conversation and in energy. Love a good banter. I might just be horny rn, so if we click, maybe we turn this into something more fun for the both of us?

If you’re someone who knows what you want (or not) and likes a little tension mixed with fun, feel free to dm with an intro. Let me know something fun about yourself.

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I've always had a thing for women older than me. Not really sure when that became a pattern... But at this point it very clearly is one ig.

And I don't mean this in the whole "older women are so mature and confident" generic way. I mean, sure, that can be part of it... But I also just like the age gap? The dynamic of it. Someone who's a little further along in life than I am, has her own stuff going on, knows what she likes. It's attractive to me.

Anyway.

I'm mostly looking for something ongoing. FWB is probably the easiest label for it. I'm not looking for something where we meet once, have sex and barely know anything about each other either.

There should at least be some familiarity, some comfort, some chemistry outside of just "we're both horny and available right now." Beyond that I don't really feel the need to overdefine it.

I'm not amazing at describing myself like this, which I'm now realising is slightly inconvenient for an r4r post.

I'm also in a long-term relationship. it's long distance and she does not know about this. Mentioning this upfront because I'm very transparent about it and not hiding it. If you're partnered too, that's fine with me depending on your situation. I just don't want unnecessary drama around it.

Sexually, I lean dominant. I like things on the rougher side once I'm comfortable with someone, and I'm very into giving as well.

I can host.

Age-wise I don't have some weird checklist where 32 qualifies and 31 doesn't. Just older than me, broadly speaking. If you're quite a bit older, even better, but chemistry matters more than me hitting some arbitrary number. I think what I'm looking for is basically something regular, comfortable and very physically driven, without it feeling completely impersonal.

If that sounds vaguely like what you're looking for too, message me. Age + a little bit about yourself would be nice.

PS: PLEASE give me something more to work with than "hey" though. I am not talented enough to build a conversation out of that.

I am 29M, living in HSR, and currently in a relationship.

Things are fine, but somewhere along the way life has become very predictable. Same routine, same days, and I guess I am looking for something outside of that. Something fun, spontaneous and exciting, without turning it into something complicated.

I would ideally like to meet someone who is also in a relationship or at least understands the situation. I think it is just easier when both people understand discretion, boundaries and that neither of us is looking to change the other's life.

A little about me: decent looking, easy to talk to, fairly funny once I get comfortable, and yes, I smell nice. I stay alone and can host as well.

I am not looking for anything very serious or emotionally intense. I would rather meet someone I actually enjoy talking to, see if there is some chemistry, and then figure out what we are comfortable with.

Discretion is obviously important to me and I would respect yours in the same way.

If you are in a similar headspace, tell me a little about yourself and what you are looking for.

Every Navratri, I tell myself that surely, by next Navratri, I'll have someone.

Someone to flirt with, annoy, take out for food, steal cuddles from, and occasionally bother with absolutely unnecessary updates about my day.

And then another Navratri rolls around, and here I am. Single. Again.

Honestly, at this point, I'm beginning to suspect the universe has decided I need character development.

Anyway, hi. I'm 31, based in Bangalore. I work in marketing, which means I'm paid to understand people and convince them of things. You'd think this would give me some advantage in my love life. It hasn't.

I am curious and probably a little too enthusiastic when the conversation is good. I like football, good food, and people who can flirt, banter, and occasionally roast me without needing a user manual.

I'm not looking to turn the first conversation into a marriage interview. I'd rather get to know someone, go on dates, make each other laugh, find excuses to spend more time together, and see where things go.

Eventually, I'd love to have that person who's the first one I want to tell things to. The stupid things, the exciting things, and the things that would make absolutely no sense to anyone else.

So, if you're in Bangalore and also tired of the same cycle of small talk and ghosting, say hi.

You can tell me about yourself, ask me something ridiculous, or just explain why the universe seems to think I need another year of being single.

Fair warning, though. If we hit it off, I'm absolutely taking credit for your excellent taste.

And maybe, just maybe, next Navratri I'll have someone to celebrate with instead of writing another one of these posts.

Universe, I'm giving you one more year. Don't make this weird.

I'll be honest, I've always loved being the kinkier one. Nothing is more satisfying than seeing a woman lose her "innocent girl" persona and completely submit herself to you.

And you know it's not just about the sex, there are so many trivial things that continue to create the tension which is unleashed in bed. Well, that is what I'm looking for. I want to get to know you. Have a connection with you & help you lose your mind to filth.

A little about me:

25 y.o, medico, passionate about cinema, art & music. Been hitting the gym for a while now while training for athleticism simultaneously. Currently exploring new (weird) hobbies as well. I've had the opportunity of talking to some wonderful women on here so hoping the post resonates back this time as well!

Please be:

a woman, interesting & sensible. and before I forget,

the kinkier the better!

Came across a thread on "breedable sluts" and it was all about thick, curvy and chubby women. Wanted to know the opinion of fellow redditors on the topic. So who exactly is considered breedable? What are the distinctive features? Does chubby appeal more? Feel free to drop a comment or DM on your opinion. Women are more than welcome to share their views on the same. So hit me up.

Hey there!

I’m looking for a fun connection with someone who genuinely loves being desired, hyped up, and the center of attention. I’d love to move at a comfortable pace, building trust and chemistry through great, playful conversation.

My three massive weaknesses: an articulate mind, a noticeable height difference, and a woman in her favorite lingerie: specifically bras.

First, nothing is hotter than a woman who knows her way around words. Whether we’re trading witty banter or painting a picture over text, being expressive makes everything ten times more attractive. Second, I love the visual contrast of a good height difference, whether you're super petite or wonderfully tall (I’m 5'7" for reference).

Pair that with my obsession with bras. To me, a great bra frames a woman’s figure in the sexiest way possible—whether it’s a teasing lacy plunge, the soft curve of a classic cup, or the snug fit of a sports bra. My ultimate dynamic is a playful "try-on" or descriptive vibe: having you describe or show off your favorite pieces while I shower you with genuine adoration. Yes, boob play is something that follows and something I'm interested in.

A little about me: I'm from Kerala, average build, easygoing, and big on respect and complete discretion. All body types are celebrated here. Zero rush or pressure, we can start with a normal chat, see how our writing styles vibe, and keep everything 100% at your comfort level.

If you want an attentive, appreciative audience of one, send me a DM! Tell me a bit about yourself or describe your favorite piece to wear, and let's see if we click. ♥️

I'm not looking for just a hookup. I'd prefer something a little long term. It takes some time to get to know one another and be familiar with each other. I want to know the exact thing which turn you on. How to get you to the edge. How to get you over it. Basically, I'm looking for someone who's willing to put in some effort.

I'm fun to hang out with. Well read and super ambitious. Can take it as slow as you'd prefer. I'm super clean. Live alone and can host. I'm hygienic and I've been told I smell very good.

It might be a personality trait or something of that sort but I get pleasure by giving pleasure. So, I'm not really expecting much from you in the first meeting. And anything more than that only if we vibe and decide to continue.

Please note that while we can chat a bit on reddit, I would require a voice call before I share any personally identifiable information about myself.

If you liked what you read so far, feel free to slide into my DMs.

Introvert here, recently here for a job and still figuring out the city. Looking to meet someone chill, genuine, and open-minded.

I’m into music, play guitar, and honestly enjoy good conversations, spending time with someone I genuinely vibe with.

Not really looking to rush into anything serious, but I’m open to friendship, ideally an FWB situation if we both feel comfortable and the vibe is right.

I’d rather actually get to know each other and see where the chemistry takes us.

If you’re also looking for someone to vibe with, feel free to DM. Cheers 🥂

Hey there! I'm a 29M from Mumbai. 6ft tall, pretty fair, decent looks and can definitely make you laugh.

I'm pretty understanding and respect boundaries. Basically, I'm the kinda person you wouldn't mind introducing to your friends.

I've always been curious about exploring different kinks, but I haven't had much experience with that lifestyle yet.

I'm hoping to find someone who's maybe similar, someone who hasn't really explored a lot of kinks but is genuinely open to trying new things and exploring them together. If you're experienced and have the patience to guide a beginner, that works too.

I'm not looking for anything serious, no strings attached - just comfort and exploration. Of course, it's super important that we click.

I'm not really into endless chats, so if you're up for verifying things and maybe giving this a shot in person, hit me up!

Hi,

I will be very clean, straightforward and honest. I am looking for someone to love and be with. I am a plus size girl, so, if you have questions like “how plus size?”, don’t bother texting.

I am currently in my second year of MBA and would be graduating in a few months. I have got a good placement and would consider myself well-settled in the next few months. I’m looking for someone who is caring, sweet, nice and respectful.

I am seeking someone for marriage, hence be someone who has an established career, someone who has probably cleared competitive exams (I have, and trust me, I have spoken to men who haven’t, I can’t relate to them).

I bring emotional intelligence, feminine energy and lots of love & cuddles to the table.

I am looking for a man whose entire personality is not based on kinks. I would be happier with a vanilla man than a pervert.

Non negotiable:

1. Taller than 5’8”.
   
2. In or around NCR.
   
3. Willing to do long distance for a few months.
   
4. Age: 26-32. (Don’t text me if you’re younger or older, you’ll get blocked)
   
5. Please be a Hindu, Sikh or Christian. (My parents won’t agree otherwise, don’t have anything against anyone, respectfully)
   
6. Willing to marry in the next 2 years.
   
7. I will be anonymous until I can trust you. Could take a week or two, or maybe more depending on how comfortable I am. Don’t force me to send pictures or disclose my identity.

All people sending AI responses would be blocked instantly.

If your first message is a boring hi or hello, or with grammatical errors, don’t expect a response.

I hope to see my guy in the DMs. Won’t be responding to too many DMs, will give a good guy his fair shot.

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