Sometimes you need to hurt them until they show proper respect

Solo habran algunos suspiros, porque ya lo tengo contemplado, pero sera que, ¿es necesario?. Yo creo que no mucho, el aire no sera tan necesario hoy para yo hacerte correr y temblar de placer muchas veces.

- Asi quería tenerte, yo se que eres multiorgasmica, y que disfrutas mucho de ese juguete, pero despues de tanto contacto te enloquece.

- No quería que solo fuera masturbacion, toqueteo y ya, la últimas vez casi me haces desmayar pero la vida es larga y tiene revancha, hoy quiero verte sufrir yo.

- Ya jugué mucho con tus tetas, pero se pusieron moradas y no lo disfruto tanto.

-Papel film, Ohhh, Que gran idea!

Solo bastará con cubrir muy bien tu cara con este material y ya puede comenzar el juego.

-Veo de momento que te ahogas muy rápido y es normal, cuanta adrenalina tienes ya en ese cuerpecito.

Yo misma dosificare tu aire de mas a menos, el orificio de inicio sera mas grande, y por momentos va a ir disminuyendo...

No te asustes bella, asi no te ahogas tan rapido, porque no voy a parar hasta que llegues al cum, y el aire sera limitado.

TL;DR: met the dom of my dreams, we’re no longer together, my withdrawal is beyond extreme, and I worry I’ll never have quite the same experience again. (And then I have a question at the end)

Hello! I am a male sub, and a few months ago, I entered into the most fulfilling relationship I’ve ever experienced with a dom we’ll call G. And then, before I knew it, she had broken up with me.

G was like no one I’d ever met. She loved the macabre, liminal spaces, the backrooms, Halloween, dungeons and dragons, thrifting… she was goth, she was curious and kind and intelligent. The list goes on and on. She was also studying in a fascinating medical field. I’d never met anyone as cool as her, let alone a partner.

And her beauty was truly unsurpassed. A curvy body, plump lips, piercing eyes, incredible, tight vagina and ass. Even describing it is making me nauseous with unrequited desire…

We got along incredibly well platonically, but sexually, it was like nothing I’d ever experienced… I’ve always been a sub, but I’d never been with a real dom - someone who actually enjoys it. Previous partners had performed the role for me in spans of 10 minutes or so, but G and I went for hours…

And our interests aligned perfectly, for the most part. And whatever we liked that the other didn’t, we simply agreed not to tread upon. She’d sit on my face, grind on my face, make me eat her in the morning (I didn’t need any convincing), she’d spit in my mouth, tie me up, overstimulate me, edge me…

I had a concept of being dominated, a dream, a naive fantasy. And my time with her exceeded my wildest imaginings. I simply did not have the capacity to foresee the depths of pleasure I would experience with a dom who enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed being a sub. And we also sexted frequently. She would reference how she owns me, “threaten” me with acts that elated me, and I’d express my adulation and worship of her. It was perfect. Beyond perfect. It was heaven

I wrote her poetry several times a week, I bought her gifts, I brought her drinks, I acted as her stool and chair, I massaged her all the time… we had the most mind blowing sex of my life, by a million-fold

And at the crux was the edging. I’d never, ever explored that, and my god. The ecstasy of her sitting in front of me, naked, commanding and laughing “hands on… hands off… now go slow…” and I’d say I’m close and she’d say “… keep going, until it’s unbearable…” and I’d ask to cum and she’d laugh and say no…

And the look in her eyes. They were like I was staring into the eyes of a deity. And she had two modes during sex: one was a wild, sadistic smile as she locked eyes with me, laughed at me, and mocked me as I moaned and begged while I was being edged. The other was a laser intense focus that made me feel like the only person in existence. I could cum just looking at her, just hearing her voice

Ultimately, on Sunday, after a series of circumstances over a few days involving her mental health and misunderstandings on my part, she decided we shouldn’t be together so that we don’t keep hurting each other with misunderstandings, but we could remain friends. I could go into that situation, but we had differences that may have made this inevitable anyway…

I fell in love with her, she felt she couldn’t love anyone. I considered it a relationship, she saw it as a friendship with a sexual dynamic (to me, those are the same, at least as far as I define the labels). I need someone, and she feels comfortable being by herself for life. These are things I recognized would have one day been a problem

However, all that aside… I am having trouble coping, to say the absolute least. The withdrawal from my dynamic with her has caused me to be unable to eat, hardly able to sleep… I’m distracted at work and at home, even among friends. I keep imagining that look in her eyes… staring deep into me and tugging at my strings. Let alone hanging out with her in platonic settings, though there was often an insatiable sexual edge to our hangouts, as if anything could happen at any time. At night, I am nauseous with anxiety imagining what she has done to me and how suddenly it was gone

And now we will never share that again. And while I would like to be friends with her after a period of less / no contact for feelings to dissipate… I fear I will always imagine those eyes of hers, penetrating my deepest depths, and drawing from me a sublime euphoria the likes of which seems impossible to feel ever again.

So here is a question I pose, one I know is probably illogical but I need to hear your answers: will I ever find such a dom again? Do you think I can find someone who wants so much of what I want in this dynamic, if I put in the work? I worry I’ll never find someone as cool as her, but at least, could I find a dom who wants what I want?

Thank you for reading

Hey, ich (m31) hab seit Ewigkeiten die Fantasy genau das zu erleben was in FemDomination 2 von Citor3 passiert. Kurz erklärt: Auto bleibt vor ner creepy Mansion liegen, du und deine Freundin gehen rein um Hilfe zu holen, werdet getrennt. Dann kommt ne Gruppe Latex-Mistresses / eine Art Queen mit ihren Girls, die dich in bizarre Rituale ziehen, dich komplett dominieren (Facesitting, Pegging, Prostate-Milking, Collar-Ceremony, Hypnose, Cum-Training, Forced Nursing usw.), während du versuchst deine GF zu retten und dich selbst nicht komplett zu verlieren. Story + geile Scenes in VR-Style, richtig intensives multi-Woman Femdom mit Cult-Vibe.

Ich weiß, das ist unrealistisch und pure Fantasy. Aber gibt’s irgendwo auf der Welt wirklich so eine Gruppe Frauen oder so nen Femdom-Cult, die sowas (oder ähnlich extremes multi-domme stuff) mit Männern machen? Auch wenn’s nur selten, privat oder in bestimmten Circles ist? Oder ist das komplett nur Porno/Spiel-Zeug?

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Cages for well endowed men, like 8inches soft kind of men. Having a hard time and I’ve spent a lot on things that are not working, any advice would be appreciated. Thank you!!

So, I recently talked with my partner (we've been pretty vanilla so far) about the BDSM fantasies/needs I've always had. I've never really done anything kinky before, and he was super open to the conversation! We both agreed, though, that it's something we should tackle one step at a time instead of just jumping right in.

What I'd love is some recommendations on how to start exploring all this stuff together. I've listed some of my kinks at the end of the post in case that helps people tailor their advice to our situation.

While he's more sexually experienced than I am, he hasn't really tried much more "intense" sex stuff, so I totally understand that he's a bit apprehensive and nervous about how to incorporate kink into our sex life. That said, I also love him to death for being so open-minded and nonjudgmental about my needs, and I want this to be something we can explore and enjoy together.

Some of the kinks I've mentioned to him that I'd definitely like to try are pet play, dominance and submission, restraints, gear, chastity and maybe some dirty talk (he's a bit more apprehensive about this one and I totally understand why).

I'd really appreciate any tips or advice on how to start incorporating these things into our sex life, especially when we're both pretty new to BDSM. How did you guys get started? Is there anything you wish you'd known when you first started exploring kink with a partner?

Thanks in advance for any advice! I really appreciate it.

Some updated edits to the main post:

Looking for some advice. We recently moved in together, with a roommate. We have our own rooms. My partner is very much service sub vibes, are also a brat, and they also love to Dom. I am very switchy and a big brat. They have only had vanilla relationships before, so we've been gently getting in to having scenes, or playing with power dynamics.

》》 (Edit: we are both switch brats, with our own individual balances. We are both AUDHD with our own spicy blend of that. They are non-binary/gender-fluid/trans-femme leaning. Very averse to genderized seggsuality. I am 3+ 1/2 years older than them, and have had many more partners+ play partners than them. They've only ever had 3 long term relationships in their life, and few play partners, and therefore not much experience play and exploration- wise. ) 《《

We've been together for over a year now, but friends for many years. I've been seeing them get burnt out because of their own life stuff, as well as expressing frustration that most of their life is about me. I think they really want to please me, and will offer so much care and service. 》》 (Edit: I think this because they express it to me as well. ) 《《

Sometimes it's hard to tell what they need, especially when they struggle to communicate it. They can also be really good at telling me exactly what they need too. They really love being given tasks, but also are pretty introverted and can get overloaded.

》》 (Edit: I continue to check in with them about ways that I can care for them when they struggle to say what they need in words. I have also learned ways that I can show care when they're non-verbal or low-verbal capacity. ) 《《

Ive brought up going over contracts with eachother before, and making lists of wants/needs/hardlines/soft lines. But we have yet to do that.

》》 (Edit:Despite lots of effort on my part to initiate and plan check ins. We have been working on having more consistent check-ins, planning dates. We communicate often about emotions; needs. I often think that it's likely I need to take more initiative, and that they've been quite soft, and may require more direction/dom'ing. This is something I will bring up with them. ) 《《

There has been some expression of wanting to see me take more initiative as well. I'm trying. I have really chaotic ADHD, and forget stuff a lot.

We've talked a lot in the past about how they would love to be my secretary, and manage my calendar, help me with organizing and scheduling/budget stuff etc. But lately it's been a struggle to plan those things, or to find time when we can both do it, or are up for it.

I've been giving them lots of little reassurances and compliments, head scratches and massages, squeezes, little affectionate groping, words of appreciation and affection 》》(EDIT: these are all things they've told me they like)《《 . Reminding them about their important life things. They seem to really like when I treat them like baby often, and then also want me to not infantilise them other times.

So it's a continuous balancing work of course. We've been struggling with me being bratty. They've lately been just getting upset/annoyed at me being defiant or putting up a fight. And not in a cute power dynamic-fun way.

Even though they have previously loved being a brat tamer, and have told me lots that they love my bratty ass. Ive been struggling with feeling like my subby/bratty needs are not being met.. and like theirs aren't also, for any of the levels.

There's been some tough life things, death/grief, house changes, moving, tough family dynamics, childhood trauma, medication changes for me; and supporting me a lot through school.

So I recognize these are all things that can absolutely affect our connection and their own capacities. Sub/service burnout is a real thing to be cared for.

They supported me so much through my last school semester, and I told them I'd do something nice for them like a spa day, or something at the end of my semester. Im remembering this as I'm typing it. I didnt follow up on that spa day specifically. But I did give them messages, made them food, pampered them.

They've recently been missing important dates. They didnt come with me on our planned anniversary trip down south, to a ceremony. I said that it's okay, they wanted to make it up to me. I said, since I planned this it's their responsibility to plan something special for our anniversary once I'm back.

They found an event that was happening and asked me if I wanted to go, it was a wonderland themed block party. (Alice in wonderland is my favorite book) They got sick, and so we didn't go.

Then we were getting ready to move, so we were busy. I reminded them later that I would still like to do a planned activity to celebrate our anniversary. It's two months later and has yet to happen.

We had my birthday camping trip 3 weeks ago, that we've been planning for 5 months. They cancelled last minute. I went anyways. Told them I would like to feel celebrated. One of the things that I love, that they know I love, is gifts. They wrote me a poem and helped me make breakfast. I have been feeling sad about not getting gifts.

They also did not come to my family birthday dinner. It's been hard feeling this way. And I dont want to shame them or fight about it.

They previously helped me so much with school, and now are barely at all. I asked them to help me again, and they said last time was so hard. I fought them so much. I told them I can be better! I'll listen and won't fight you! I can be better, I promise!

And they said okay, I can help you.

They've been soft and lightly encouraging. They have been encouraging me to get up in the morning. Will occasionally bring me tea or coffee, or food. They've brought me breakfast a couple days last week. And checked on me a couple times during the day.

I want to talk more about what it can look like, but talking about it has been hard with them.

I asked to take time to schedule check ins and planning, and they've been very quiet and shut down.

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I feel like seggs has been pretty slow. We have a one- night-on/one-night-off schedule going right now. So that we both get some time alone. We sleep in my room together one night, and then we sleep separately the next. They are quite introverted and need lots of time alone.

We have seggs fairly often, but very vanilla lately. The last number of months. They dont often play with me. We've talked about this a number of times. I make an effort to play with them and initiate.

A lot of the seggs has been just sleepy or low-key when we're already in bed cuddling or going to sleep.

Unless I initiate.

We have a lot of sweetness and gentleness and intimacy otherwise. A lot of general care.

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The last time I remember them going down on me was actually two weeks ago. Now that I think of it; the first time in many months. Briefly, but they made to effort to come back to going down on me as we played. Which was nice. It just seems to be very few and far between.

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I understand that just talking to eachother is good, really the best way to iron things out, and I absolutely plan to continue doing that. 》》 Im looking for insight and advice on ways that I can approach this. Can you help me see things Im missing? Do you have tools that I could benefit from? Advice for our dynamic? Experience in similar dynamics? 《《 They've previously expressed interest in having a dom and having alotted time to be a sub. Thank you for your time and consideration ✨️