r/WouldIBeTheAhole • u/burnerasf3536 • 1d ago
UPDATE (WIBTAH If I don’t tell my friend’s BF that she cheated on him)
One of Monica’s friends at school sent me a video of Monica making out with the other guy WHEN CHANDLER WAS VISITING HER AND ASLEEP IN HER APARTMENT. I was/am totally disgusted and horrified after seeing the video. I knew that the other guy JUST sleeping over was BS but seeing the video really cemented the situation for me. It sent me over the edge bc after I posted I was leaning towards telling Chandler but was gonna sleep on it. After seeing the video I knew Chandler should know ASAP, but I figured it would be better coming from Monica. So I called Monica and begged her to tell him, she refused. We fought and I told her either she told him or I was going to. So, after Monica and I hung up and she said she wasn’t going to admit to anything, I called Chandler, I told him everything and sent him the video. He’s devastated, but appreciative that I told him. In the end I feel like it was the right thing. I think I was just in denial about my friendship with Monica being over, and that was selfish of me. Honestly the more I’ve thought about it, the more I realized I can’t keep a liar like this in my life, no matter how long we were friends. Thank you to everyone who commented on my original post and put me in my place. I’m glad that I got to hear outsiders thoughts. It was the right thing to do, he deserved to know and I truly am hoping the best things for him.
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u/TacoStrong 17h ago
Congratulations you’ve leveled up in the mature adult world. You did the absolute right thing. She was no friend if she lied to you and was betraying her BF.
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u/SceneNational6303 6m ago
Good work OP. That must have been so hard. But just because something is hard doesn't mean it's not the right thing to do.
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u/LauraLand27 23h ago
You’ve redeemed yourself.
Monica isn’t worthy of your friendship.