WIBTA if I sent my in-laws the booking confirmation after my BIL told them the anniversary trip was from him?

[u/Pale-Experience-2409]

My husband and I wanted to do something for his parents’ 40th anniversary coming up in November. We found a beachfront rental that fits the whole family for a long weekend and my BIL said he’d go in with us, $1,700 each.

A couple days before the deposit was due he texted me that him and his wife bought a house and can’t swing it right now. The listing had already been booked and cancelled on other people and the deadline was that Friday so I just put the full $3,400 on our card. We figured he’d pay us back once things settled down but that conversation never happened.

This past Saturday the whole family went out for the anniversary dinner.

Toward the end BIL tapped his glass and told the table he’d booked mom and dad a beach trip for their anniversary. My FIL actually teared up. MIL went around the table to hug him. The whole table was clapping and congratulating him and I just sat there watching my husband stare at his plate.

On the drive home I asked my husband if he was gonna say anything. He told me his parents are genuinely excited and he doesn’t want to start something over it.

The next day FIL called my husband. I could hear the whole conversation through the phone. He just kept going on about how great it is that BIL came through and my husband sat there saying yeah the whole time.

Since Monday BIL’s been in the family group chat acting like he’s the one coordinating this trip. “I’ll send everyone the details this week” and “let me know your flight times so I can figure out cars.” He hasn’t asked me for a single damn piece of the booking information.

I’ve got the confirmation email right there with my name on the booking and my card charged for the full $3,400 and I can’t decide whether to just let him take credit for something he didn’t pay a cent toward or to forward it to the group chat and let everyone see for themselves. WIBTA?

[u/Original_Thanks_9435]

EXACTLY what I’d do. OR I might cancel the entire trip and go away alone or with my mom or sister — without my spineless husband and idiot in-laws.

[u/Own-Eagle-2135 → u/Original_Thanks_9435]

oh yes, this! you and your husband go on a trip.

BIL paid for it all, doesn't seem like a problem.

[u/SinglePermission9373 → u/Original_Thanks_9435]

I wouldn’t cancel the trip. It’s not the in-laws fault that their son is a slime ball