Okay, here’s my take… because this is WILD.
I’m in the same boat as a lot of you. I took out student loans, paid off most of my undergrad debt, and then stupidly bought into the whole corporate marketing narrative that getting a master’s degree would help me stand out and eventually land that Director/VP role I thought I wanted 10 years ago.
So, in 2016, I took out a SHIT TON more loans to get my master’s degree. Then, in 2018, I got laid off from the absolute hellhole of a job I was working. My first layoff in corporate America.
Fast-forward to today, and I’m on job number who-even-knows, having weathered FOUR MORE layoffs since getting that degree. I’ve had stretches of unemployment ranging from 4 to 12 months. I’ve worked my ass off, kept trying to move forward, and somehow ended up owing more in student loans than I make in an entire year.
I make a low six-figure salary, which I know is a privilege in many ways. But as an overeducated woman trying to build a career in corporate America, raise two kids, and keep a roof over our heads, that money does not go nearly as far as people seem to think it does.
$2,000 a month for full-time preschool? Real.
Living in New York with some of the highest property taxes in the country? Real.
Going through five layoffs and months of unemployment? Real.
Owing more in student loans than I make in a year? VERY real.
But somehow, the government thinks I can afford $822 A MONTH in student loan payments?!
ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!
I called to see what my options were. The lowest payment they could get me to was $580 a month, which, frankly, is a lot better than $822. But even that is a massive expense when you’re already juggling childcare, a mortgage, and the general cost of existing.
And here’s the advice I was given: take another 12 months of forbearance and voluntarily make payments of $400–$500 a month during that time, even though I’m not required to make payments. Basically, cross my fingers, hope the political landscape changes, and pray that something gets figured out before I have to start making these payments again.
Meanwhile, my company seems to be gearing up for what feels like another round of layoffs. So there’s a very real possibility that my income could look completely different in the next year.
How is this the system we’ve created?
We encouraged people to get educated, told us advanced degrees would open doors, and sold us the idea that more education meant more opportunity and financial stability. Meanwhile, corporate America has been a revolving door of layoffs, and now we’re expected to shoulder debt payments calculated as if our financial lives are stable, predictable, and completely unaffected by the cost of raising a family.
I’m not saying I shouldn’t have to repay what I borrowed. I made those decisions, and I understand that.
But there is a massive difference between being responsible for your debt and being expected to pay an amount that genuinely does not fit into your financial reality.
How the hell are people supposed to make this work?
Seriously, how are the rest of you navigating this? Because being told to just wait another year and hope things improve is not exactly a financial plan.