Not sure if it'd be offensive to say this, but sometimes women just kinda fantasize(?) about the ones they find attractive would just persist regardless of how they "resist", and the ones they don't find attractive would simply not try and bother in the first place, regardless of whether those people are trying to flirt or not.
Obviously it's not everyone and not every time. And I'm not saying there's anything inherently wrong either. It's probably the subtle (biological) differences, like, if I were a woman, I might naturally enjoy that process maybe?
It shouldn't be offensive to anyone because sexual health research has repeatedly backed up the idea that fantasies of being pursued / dominated by a man are common in women. Not literally everyone, but it's common
And men’s fantasy is Dominating women. It’s natural. But Of course there’s men who want to be dominated by women and women who want to dominate men. These desires are normal and healthy and it can all be done in a safe fun way.
Idk I have zero want to dominate a girl. And whenever a girl I'm having sex with asks me to slap her or bite her nipples and shit or talk dirty I fucking hate it.
I was gonna just respond with lucky bastard, a lot of guys are stuck with boring Woman but that would be an asshole thing to say. People can’t help what they like and don’t like. You are entitled To feeling how you do bro
There’s more to dominating than spanking and biting But I’m curious what’s so bad about bitting a nipple or talking dirty to you ? I understand that not being something that does much for you but why do you hate it so much? If your girl wants you to do that then why is that so bad? I mean we aren’t talking about anything crazy here like sex in public kink or a poop kink lol.
I’ve been with women who thought they hated things like hair pulling or nipple bitting but that’s because those guys didn’t do it right, they bit too hard and when they pulled hair they didn’t grab firmly at the root- it’s not just about pulling too hard, you can use the same force and it feel worse if you aren’t grabbing towards the root firmly.
idk man, I have a hard time treating girls like sl*ts even if they want me to. I don't feel cool animalistic man etc, I'm just more of a soft romantic guy, who does some sexual shit but don't like it to be animalistic. Something inside my brain says girls are soft delicate and I wanna treat them softly, doesn't mean I'm not sexual, I go for 3 rounds usually, and when I was like 21 I used to go 4-6 rounds in 1 day haha. Just mostly soft or medium intensity sex.
And I'm now single btw, so nothing to feel that I'm lucky hahaha. I'll forever enjoy my basic sensual sex and admire the artform of female body and slowly enjoy the taste rather than go full animalistic.
It's not offensive if it's the truth. Obviously not every woman does this, but anyone who has been in a long term relationship knows the plight of guessing games.
Like if my girlfriend is venting problems to me, I have to be a sleuth to figure out if she actually wants help with a solution, or just wants to vent.
Honestly, the ‘guessing game’ part is unnecessary. In most cases, when a woman is venting, the first thing they want is to feel heard and understood. You don’t need to immediately switch into problem-solving mode or figure out some hidden meaning. Listening, validating their feelings, and showing that you care is usually the point. If they want advice, they can ask for it or you can offer it after they feel heard.
Yup. Took me awhile to figure this out (ask if I'm a dude lol), but I did. I still have my make impulse to solve solve solve, but I understand the need to be angry, and that it doesn't just go away and that I have to respect at least some of that time.
Usually. But my point is that maybe 25% of the time they're looking for a solution to a problem, and the distinction between the two is blurred sometimes.
“ Regardless of how much they resist”
This woman here didn’t resist much. She never said no, she just said she normally doesn’t give her number out and he immediately left- which is fair.
If a woman is really interested she may play a little coy but she’s not going to resist that hard hoping a guy would persist. A lot of women want a guy to show some persistence but regardless of how they resist? No.
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u/matrix-doge 26d ago
Not sure if it'd be offensive to say this, but sometimes women just kinda fantasize(?) about the ones they find attractive would just persist regardless of how they "resist", and the ones they don't find attractive would simply not try and bother in the first place, regardless of whether those people are trying to flirt or not.
Obviously it's not everyone and not every time. And I'm not saying there's anything inherently wrong either. It's probably the subtle (biological) differences, like, if I were a woman, I might naturally enjoy that process maybe?