First thing's first, I've had my fair share of amazing platonic friendships so it's not exactly what I'm looking for nowadays. Just wanted to throw it out there.

I'm basically looking for someone who doesn't think twice before saying what she's thinking about. Be it flirting, or making jokes or anything at all. Someone who just says things as they come and somehow makes it fun!

I like conversations that have personality. Teasing, playful roasting, questionable jokes, flirting that's bold but still fun. The kind where you're not sitting there wondering what to say next, it just flows and occasionally goes off the rails. Clever fucking banter!

Would be nice to find someone I can talk to late nights, switching between dumb jokes, random thoughts, and venting sessions. Someone I can flirt with, laugh with, and just be comfortable around without feeling like I need to filter everything.

tiny bit about me: I watch at least one movie almost every night and have been doing that for years, so I will probably make you watch something with me at some point. I like singing, video games, and just generally keeping things fun, I'm a fun loving person.

If you can handle a bit of chaos, don't get awkward around flirting, and aren't afraid of jokes that make you judge yourself, we'll get along just fine.

PS: I'm in the US for now

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25 [M4F] Online - Up for phone sex? If you want to moan louder than ever, ping me.

If you are in the mood for some real hot sesh, you are at the right place. With a fair amount of experiences, I'm saying this with confidence that I can make you moan louder.

I'm good with my fingers and tongue, I mean I can type and talk well ;)

If you are someone who's good at this game, slide into my DMs and I'll slide into you.

To start with, CNC is not a misogyny kink mostly. For a lot of women CNC is a hot validation kink. For some it is reliving a past trauma, but mostly a woman asking for CNC just loves the feeling of being desired so much he takes you against your will. It makes her feel hot. It makes her feel like a primal object of sex, and she likes it. Good for her.

I’m just saying if you are texting me about wanting to try out misogyny, know that you getting roughed up is not necessarily misogyny. It could be done with some disrespect, I agree. But it is much better done as a CNC kink where you inform your partner ahead that you’re looking to be roughed in a certain way.

I, madam, am a misogyny fetishist. I'm not here to validate you and make you feel like a goddess that got violated by filth. I'm here to invalidate you and make you feel like filth serving an abusive man like he’s god.

I'm here to affirm to you that you are not desirable. To confirm your gnawing suspicion that you, with all your success, attractiveness, and intellect, are ultimately worthless. I love this bit. To look into your face and announce to it that you are ugly, stupid, and a fucking failure like you were always afraid you were.

This kind of emotional sadism begets a complementary emotional masochism. The women who have done it with me, at least the ones who didn’t safeword and fly away, did it for two reasons. One, they needed the hate, the degradation, and the feeling of being punished. Two, they get off to it.

If that speaks to you, you should message me. And when you message me tell me which of these degenerate masochistic cunts you identify with.

The just out of college techie who took my big toe into her smooth cleanshaven cunt to get kicked and fucked at the same time. The well paid consultant who booked a plush room to lick my boots and offer herself with an open mouth to be pissed upon and into. The trauma slut that got fucked missionary listening to how she deserved everything that happened to her.

If you know the flavour of fucked up you are, I will be able to use you better. In return for all the considerable abuse I mete out to you, I expect you to keep me amused and pleased. It’s only fair.

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A little about me: I'm an engineer, around 6'4 tall, and usually out for late-night walks or bike rides when everything’s quiet. I love cooking, staying active, and unwinding with just the right tv show.

I’m looking for someone who’s fun to talk to, confident, and enjoys a strong connection, both in conversation and in energy. Love a good banter. I might just be horny rn, so if we click, maybe we turn this into something more fun for the both of us?

If you’re someone who knows what you want (or not) and likes a little tension mixed with fun, feel free to dm with an intro. Let me know something fun about yourself.

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I've always had a thing for women older than me. Not really sure when that became a pattern... But at this point it very clearly is one ig.

And I don't mean this in the whole "older women are so mature and confident" generic way. I mean, sure, that can be part of it... But I also just like the age gap? The dynamic of it. Someone who's a little further along in life than I am, has her own stuff going on, knows what she likes. It's attractive to me.

Anyway.

I'm mostly looking for something ongoing. FWB is probably the easiest label for it. I'm not looking for something where we meet once, have sex and barely know anything about each other either.

There should at least be some familiarity, some comfort, some chemistry outside of just "we're both horny and available right now." Beyond that I don't really feel the need to overdefine it.

I'm not amazing at describing myself like this, which I'm now realising is slightly inconvenient for an r4r post.

I'm also in a long-term relationship. it's long distance and she does not know about this. Mentioning this upfront because I'm very transparent about it and not hiding it. If you're partnered too, that's fine with me depending on your situation. I just don't want unnecessary drama around it.

Sexually, I lean dominant. I like things on the rougher side once I'm comfortable with someone, and I'm very into giving as well.

I can host.

Age-wise I don't have some weird checklist where 32 qualifies and 31 doesn't. Just older than me, broadly speaking. If you're quite a bit older, even better, but chemistry matters more than me hitting some arbitrary number. I think what I'm looking for is basically something regular, comfortable and very physically driven, without it feeling completely impersonal.

If that sounds vaguely like what you're looking for too, message me. Age + a little bit about yourself would be nice.

PS: PLEASE give me something more to work with than "hey" though. I am not talented enough to build a conversation out of that.

I am 29M, living in HSR, and currently in a relationship.

Things are fine, but somewhere along the way life has become very predictable. Same routine, same days, and I guess I am looking for something outside of that. Something fun, spontaneous and exciting, without turning it into something complicated.

I would ideally like to meet someone who is also in a relationship or at least understands the situation. I think it is just easier when both people understand discretion, boundaries and that neither of us is looking to change the other's life.

A little about me: decent looking, easy to talk to, fairly funny once I get comfortable, and yes, I smell nice. I stay alone and can host as well.

I am not looking for anything very serious or emotionally intense. I would rather meet someone I actually enjoy talking to, see if there is some chemistry, and then figure out what we are comfortable with.

Discretion is obviously important to me and I would respect yours in the same way.

If you are in a similar headspace, tell me a little about yourself and what you are looking for.

Every Navratri, I tell myself that surely, by next Navratri, I'll have someone.

Someone to flirt with, annoy, take out for food, steal cuddles from, and occasionally bother with absolutely unnecessary updates about my day.

And then another Navratri rolls around, and here I am. Single. Again.

Honestly, at this point, I'm beginning to suspect the universe has decided I need character development.

Anyway, hi. I'm 31, based in Bangalore. I work in marketing, which means I'm paid to understand people and convince them of things. You'd think this would give me some advantage in my love life. It hasn't.

I am curious and probably a little too enthusiastic when the conversation is good. I like football, good food, and people who can flirt, banter, and occasionally roast me without needing a user manual.

I'm not looking to turn the first conversation into a marriage interview. I'd rather get to know someone, go on dates, make each other laugh, find excuses to spend more time together, and see where things go.

Eventually, I'd love to have that person who's the first one I want to tell things to. The stupid things, the exciting things, and the things that would make absolutely no sense to anyone else.

So, if you're in Bangalore and also tired of the same cycle of small talk and ghosting, say hi.

You can tell me about yourself, ask me something ridiculous, or just explain why the universe seems to think I need another year of being single.

Fair warning, though. If we hit it off, I'm absolutely taking credit for your excellent taste.

And maybe, just maybe, next Navratri I'll have someone to celebrate with instead of writing another one of these posts.

Universe, I'm giving you one more year. Don't make this weird.

I'll be honest, I've always loved being the kinkier one. Nothing is more satisfying than seeing a woman lose her "innocent girl" persona and completely submit herself to you.

And you know it's not just about the sex, there are so many trivial things that continue to create the tension which is unleashed in bed. Well, that is what I'm looking for. I want to get to know you. Have a connection with you & help you lose your mind to filth.

A little about me:

25 y.o, medico, passionate about cinema, art & music. Been hitting the gym for a while now while training for athleticism simultaneously. Currently exploring new (weird) hobbies as well. I've had the opportunity of talking to some wonderful women on here so hoping the post resonates back this time as well!

Please be:

a woman, interesting & sensible. and before I forget,

the kinkier the better!

Came across a thread on "breedable sluts" and it was all about thick, curvy and chubby women. Wanted to know the opinion of fellow redditors on the topic. So who exactly is considered breedable? What are the distinctive features? Does chubby appeal more? Feel free to drop a comment or DM on your opinion. Women are more than welcome to share their views on the same. So hit me up.

Hey there!

I’m looking for a fun connection with someone who genuinely loves being desired, hyped up, and the center of attention. I’d love to move at a comfortable pace, building trust and chemistry through great, playful conversation.

My three massive weaknesses: an articulate mind, a noticeable height difference, and a woman in her favorite lingerie: specifically bras.

First, nothing is hotter than a woman who knows her way around words. Whether we’re trading witty banter or painting a picture over text, being expressive makes everything ten times more attractive. Second, I love the visual contrast of a good height difference, whether you're super petite or wonderfully tall (I’m 5'7" for reference).

Pair that with my obsession with bras. To me, a great bra frames a woman’s figure in the sexiest way possible—whether it’s a teasing lacy plunge, the soft curve of a classic cup, or the snug fit of a sports bra. My ultimate dynamic is a playful "try-on" or descriptive vibe: having you describe or show off your favorite pieces while I shower you with genuine adoration. Yes, boob play is something that follows and something I'm interested in.

A little about me: I'm from Kerala, average build, easygoing, and big on respect and complete discretion. All body types are celebrated here. Zero rush or pressure, we can start with a normal chat, see how our writing styles vibe, and keep everything 100% at your comfort level.

If you want an attentive, appreciative audience of one, send me a DM! Tell me a bit about yourself or describe your favorite piece to wear, and let's see if we click. ♥️

I'm not looking for just a hookup. I'd prefer something a little long term. It takes some time to get to know one another and be familiar with each other. I want to know the exact thing which turn you on. How to get you to the edge. How to get you over it. Basically, I'm looking for someone who's willing to put in some effort.

I'm fun to hang out with. Well read and super ambitious. Can take it as slow as you'd prefer. I'm super clean. Live alone and can host. I'm hygienic and I've been told I smell very good.

It might be a personality trait or something of that sort but I get pleasure by giving pleasure. So, I'm not really expecting much from you in the first meeting. And anything more than that only if we vibe and decide to continue.

Please note that while we can chat a bit on reddit, I would require a voice call before I share any personally identifiable information about myself.

If you liked what you read so far, feel free to slide into my DMs.

Introvert here, recently here for a job and still figuring out the city. Looking to meet someone chill, genuine, and open-minded.

I’m into music, play guitar, and honestly enjoy good conversations, spending time with someone I genuinely vibe with.

Not really looking to rush into anything serious, but I’m open to friendship, ideally an FWB situation if we both feel comfortable and the vibe is right.

I’d rather actually get to know each other and see where the chemistry takes us.

If you’re also looking for someone to vibe with, feel free to DM. Cheers 🥂

Hey there! I'm a 29M from Mumbai. 6ft tall, pretty fair, decent looks and can definitely make you laugh.

I'm pretty understanding and respect boundaries. Basically, I'm the kinda person you wouldn't mind introducing to your friends.

I've always been curious about exploring different kinks, but I haven't had much experience with that lifestyle yet.

I'm hoping to find someone who's maybe similar, someone who hasn't really explored a lot of kinks but is genuinely open to trying new things and exploring them together. If you're experienced and have the patience to guide a beginner, that works too.

I'm not looking for anything serious, no strings attached - just comfort and exploration. Of course, it's super important that we click.

I'm not really into endless chats, so if you're up for verifying things and maybe giving this a shot in person, hit me up!

Hi everyone,

I'm a bi submissive chubby guy from Mumbai. I am looking for a couple to use and abuse me with limits being little to none.

Serving is something that has always excited me and I believe I am quite good at it (based on the experience I've had with couples). My kinks include the likes of bdsm, edging, domination, water sports, bondage, cbt, submission and edging among other things.

If you feel you want to have complete control over what I do and how I do it, feel free to DM me. Even if you don't want that, I'm always open for a chat ;)

Hey,

27, Delhi/NCR — QC analyst, but intentional about most things in life, including this. Long-term relationship ended a while back, and honestly, some days it's just quiet and lonely, and I want that to change with someone real, not another app-chat that fizzles out.

I'm into anime, superhero films (MCU/DCEU), and markets/finance — I like breaking down trends and talking ideas, not just small talk. Also on a genuine journey to quit smoking, slow but steady. 5'7", straightforward, and I think humour + authenticity beat "fitting a mould" every time.

If you're 23+, based in Delhi/NCR, tired of surface-level chats, and actually down to meet — coffee or a walk — rather than message forever, hit me up. No games, no drama, just two people figuring out if there's something real here.

Feeling lonely or lost too? Let's just talk.

Hi,

I will be very clean, straightforward and honest. I am looking for someone to love and be with. I am a plus size girl, so, if you have questions like “how plus size?”, don’t bother texting.

I am currently in my second year of MBA and would be graduating in a few months. I have got a good placement and would consider myself well-settled in the next few months. I’m looking for someone who is caring, sweet, nice and respectful.

I am seeking someone for marriage, hence be someone who has an established career, someone who has probably cleared competitive exams (I have, and trust me, I have spoken to men who haven’t, I can’t relate to them).

I bring emotional intelligence, feminine energy and lots of love & cuddles to the table.

I am looking for a man whose entire personality is not based on kinks. I would be happier with a vanilla man than a pervert.

Non negotiable:

1. Taller than 5’8”.
   
2. In or around NCR.
   
3. Willing to do long distance for a few months.
   
4. Age: 26-32. (Don’t text me if you’re younger or older, you’ll get blocked)
   
5. Please be a Hindu, Sikh or Christian. (My parents won’t agree otherwise, don’t have anything against anyone, respectfully)
   
6. Willing to marry in the next 2 years.
   
7. I will be anonymous until I can trust you. Could take a week or two, or maybe more depending on how comfortable I am. Don’t force me to send pictures or disclose my identity.

All people sending AI responses would be blocked instantly.

If your first message is a boring hi or hello, or with grammatical errors, don’t expect a response.

I hope to see my guy in the DMs. Won’t be responding to too many DMs, will give a good guy his fair shot.

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This is what I desire to do with you after our date -

I'll drop you lengthwise on the cushion, then lift your hips up to rest on the armrest, arching your spine.

You'll eye me up the length of your torso. You think “Why not just fold me over and fuck me from behind?”.

Then I rip open my button-fly and pull my beautiful cock out, and you won't care how I take you just so long as I do. You whimper as I shove into you, your body struggling to accommodate the wonderful fullness you craved. Yanking your hips to meet my powerful thrusts, I batter your tender vagina with that brutally thick column of rigid flesh, my gaze dark and possessive, my breath leaving me in primitive grunts every time I hit the end of you.

A trembling moan leaves you, the friction of my drives stirring your never-sated need to be fucked senseless by me. Only me.

A handful of strokes and my head falls back as I gasp your name, my hips rolling to stir you into a frenzy. “Squeeze me, baby. Squeeze my dick.”

You tighten around me and I curse. Your gaze found mine, the stunning brown hazed with sexual euphoria. A convulsive shudder wracks my powerful frame, followed by an agonized sound of ecstasy. My cock jerks inside you, once, twice, and then I am gonna come long and hard, spurting hotly into the clutching depths of your body.

You watch me with awe and pure female triumph that you could do this to me. You will own me in that moment of orgasm, just as much as I will own you.

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If this stirs something in you, I’d love to hear your thoughts. DM me, maybe we can explore this together.

^(!lock)

Heyy, I’m 24 and recently joined a job in Mumbai. I’ve lived around India and also spent time in the USA.

A little about me:

I’m into golf and tennis, and I also run and cycle quite a bit since staying active is important to me. I have a soft spot for modern and contemporary Indian art. Music-wise, I’m all about the ‘80s pop rock vibe, and when it comes to movies, Indiana Jones and Back to the Future are my go-to classics. I’m around 6 feet tall, above average build, and I like to think I’m pretty fun to chat with.

I’m looking for something casual, ideally a FWB situation with the right vibe. If you feel we’d click, drop me a message

Hello! I have divided this post in various parts with suitable headlines in bold dive in. I sincerely hope we make it past the exchange of pleasantries and develop a connection. Please be kind enough to take a leap of faith. This is a safe space.

Who I am: I'm 38, professionally gainfully employed , 5.10 of height and trying to live a very healthy lifestyle. I have been in the kink/bdsm lifestyle for over 18+ years now.

Who I am (but a little deeper): I'm the kind of person who likes vulnerability. I like the intensity that comes with honesty. I believe in mutual respect. Even when I'm degrading you, we both know there's a mutual respect for each other in our minds. I've been a daddy dom for over ten years now and with pandemic, just like everyone, I focused on mental health first. I now think I'm ready to venture and train someone with all that I've got.

Kinks: My kinks include orgasm control, denial, edging, forced orgasm, sadism, cnc, rapeplay, free use, impact play, bladder control, primal, slave/slut training and many more.I don't force my kink on anyone and I respect consent. I just don't want to only be a dom but will prefer that you (my sub) and I talk beyond the dynamic as well. Mental stimulation is important or I believe things go stale. Aftercare is a default and I’ll never compromise on that.

What it means to me: I take my role as a daddy dom religiously and put all my heart into it. I am strict and at the same time, I'm also a human besides being a daddy dom. And I know exactly when to be caring and loving. It's a duality that I live with. This duality is a part of me and you'll see that this somehow helps me in being the best version of myself.

What I am looking for? (What you and I are looking for?: A dynamic. Some honesty. Some vulnerability. A lot of Intensity. An imaginative mind. Healthy libido. Rants. Sessions. Intellectual discourse. (As you can see I am not very demanding!!!)

How can you reach me? What do you need to write in your message?: You can Initiate a chat with me. You can either put in some effort (as most post here say it) in your reply or you can just say HELLO and we will go from there. I don't think Hellos are low effort though you’ll have to put in effort in your conversations once we start talking. You can share about what you think of my username. To reach out to someone takes courage and that is never a low effort to me.

Miscellaneous but important things: What I ask is that be ready to have a conversation and no I won’t roleplay, I’m looking for a sub and I think that’s plenty clear from my post. In the past I’ve connected with few people from here, some were duds, some got cold feet and some were insecured, which honestly we all are but if you don’t communicate your insecurities out loud then you can’t expect me to read your mind. I’ve also met people/connected with some on a level that’s intensely deep but they couldn’t go long term because of their own personal commitments and I respect them for that. I needed to say this because once you feel like you’re developing a connection and invest your precious mental wavelengths with that person and the next moment they think you’re too busy with work and decide to vanish. My point is be communicative. Be open. Yes I’m an adult. Yes some days I may get busy. Some days even you might get busy. What I don’t appreciate or want is unnecessary drama when there needs to be none. We may begin at Reddit but I’ll prefer moving to someplace convenient for both of us to talk. I may or may not ask you to verify, I reserve the right for the same. I also prefer connecting on voice and video calls after usual texting since it brings in a lot more personal touch to the connection and communication.

note: it takes a lot of my energy and wavelength to connect and develop a connection, kindly reach out only if you’re clear of your needs, have clarity, willing to put in effort, take a leap of faith and learn. And, PLEASE, for the love of everything that’s holy reach out only if you’re willing to communicate, and not going to ghost! I had connected with someone with whom I shared a great bond but their situation was complicated and it had to come to an abrupt end.

I think that will be all and I will wrap it up here. Adios!

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28M, 5’9. I'm dominant by nature: confident, direct, and I like taking the lead. But I'm a switch at heart, so if the right woman wants to take control sometimes, I'm down. I'm not here for the same boring routine.

I'm looking for a woman who's bold, knows what she likes and isn't shy about saying it. Casual, discreet and no drama. If the chemistry is there, we'll explore what works for both of us.

I take consent seriously. We talk about boundaries and limits before anything happens, and a "no" or "stop" is final, no questions asked.

Ground rules: text first, then a video call so we both know we're real.

!lock

QC Analyst by day, "market ko crack karne wala aspiring trader" by night. Jeetna kabhi kabhi, seekhna hamesha.

5'8", anime supremacy, MCU se thoda door. Sarcasm meri mother tongue hai.

Chai > coffee, Kulfi > guilt, Asli baatein > bakwas small talk.

Bas ek cheez check karni hai — momos kaise khaate ho, aur raat 12 baje bhook lage toh kya khaate ho? Isi se pata chal jayega vibe match hai ya nahi.

No games, no ghosting jaise mera portfolio karta hai corrections mein. Chai pe milte hain?

Hi there, I'm a 28-year-old guy from Chennai, standing at 5'11", dusky, bearded, handsome—check my profile for pics if you're curious. If you're an inexperienced woman who's never explored your body or desires, feeling that mix of nervousness and secret excitement, I want to be the patient, caring partner to introduce you to it all. Imagine starting slow: soft kisses that make your lips tingle, my hands exploring you tenderly with fingering to build that warm ache inside, until you're ready for more.

I'm all about making your first time unforgettable and comfortable. I'll teach you to relax into pleasure, helping you discover squirting orgasms with my gentle techniques—watching you tremble and release for the first time. We'll practice together, like guiding you to take me deeper in your mouth, turning shy licks into confident deepthroating, until you feel like a natural. And if you're open to it, I love rimming to heighten every sensation, but only what feels right for you. No rush— we'll cuddle after each wave of ecstasy, letting you catch your breath before chasing the next. Promise you will be addicted to my deep strokes as you reach maximum pleasure, and see you get creamy all over it, and make you want more. Also love prone boning, which hits the g spot directly, makes you shake with my balls deep. Body type? Doesn't matter to me—curvy, slim, or anywhere in between; I just want the real you, unfiltered and eager to learn.

If you've never kissed, touched, or gone further, don't hold back. Tell me your thoughts, your curiosities, and we'll plan a safe, private meetup in Chennai to ease you in. Let's make your fantasies real, one step at a time. Serious inquiries only; no catfishes. If you're an adventurous woman who's new to exploring your deepest desires and craving the thrill of a powerful, if you are engaged and have not had sex yet, we can figure it out before your wedding too. An unforgettable experience with a well-endowed black king, I'm here to guide you every step of the way. Let's make your fantasies come alive—DM me if you're ready to surrender to the pleasure and let me train you like the goddess you are. Guys and catfishes stay away.

Only in Chennai can host ping me

Let’s be real - calling myself a Dom feels a little too much like a guy who just watched Fifty Shades and bought a fake leather harness off Amazon.

I’m not here to give orders. I just happen to enjoy sex that’s a little intense, a little messy, and always ridiculously fun.

So, what does that mean? Think firm hands, teasing restraint, the occasional hair pull that makes you gasp in all the right ways (maybe with a few finger-shaped souvenirs on your hips).

We can get to know more about each other through chat.

Discretion is guaranteed and I will not announce myself as your overlord

Drop me a message if you’re intrigued.