I can understand the "anonymity" and the obsession of dark characters from book tok girls but why that specific mask?

Hi! I am bi, male, and i really like idea of somnophilia as receiving person. It's make me very hard when i fantasizing about being sleep and being completely unaware about what my partner/anyone doing with me, maybe until i woke up and find out or maybe i will stay not sure if something happened at all. I know many girls in internet have similar kink, but as boy i worry if it could be weird for someone when confess to them about it.

So I have been meeting up with guys so they can see me squat and pee. It turns them on and I really like seeing them get excited over me. Some of them have asked for me to lose a certain way and pee. I enjoy knowing they're getting off. There have been a couple strange requests but nothing too bad. I sometimes lend them a hand if they're nice and have a nice cock.

From your experience...

I dont mean slutty in a derogatory way. Just women are comfortable and confident with thier sexuality

My vote is South African

Since I've been 18 I've had a huge kink of being a pervy stepson. Idk if any young guys have the same kink as me. But if you have the same kink as me tell me how the kink started.

Anyone here with a vacuum cleaner fetish? My cock is always getting hard and dripping precum when I am vacuuming. Almost like I am sexually attracted to vacuum cleaners. I love it when I “accidentally” suck something up that makes a loud noise through the hose. Or when I suck something big up without me seeing it that makes a loud noise. Scaring me a little but so fun at the same time. Gets me hard everytime. I wonder if there are more people here getting sexually aroused by vacuum cleaners.

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so i've been thinking a lot about my kinks and dynamics, fantasies and stuff like that in my head lately and realized something about myself that i've honestly never really heard anyone talk about before. i'm super curious if anyone else here feels the same way, and this is a thing.

i definitely have my own personal kinks and preferences. however, i noticed that on top of that, i can find almost anything extremely hot as soon as i see that the other person is genuinely getting off on it.

this already starts with total vanilla stuff. when someone completely melts during making out, intense eye contact, or just classic, slow sex and is a hundred percent in the moment, it gets me so much. but it also really hits me when it comes to things that aren't considered "basic hot" by society at all, things i would never even think of on my own.

just to give a few examples: if a girl finds it super hot to lick her own feet, or gets totally turned on by watching videos of people burping. or if someone is super into tickling, wants to slip into some completely absurd roleplay, is into balloons, or wants to do very specific, weird things with food. on its own, none of that does anything for me at first. but the second i see or they tell me how much the other person is feeling it, a switch flips in my brain and i suddenly find it insanely hot too in the dynamic?

honestly, i currently can't think of a single kink i wouldn't try or participate in if my partner was totally into it.

i've been wondering why that is, and i think it's a mix of a few things:

for one, this unconditional "consent" to one's own desires turns me on so much. during standard sex, a lot of people (often subconsciously) try to play a certain role, look as aesthetic as possible, or do what society has taught us is "sexy". but when someone completely loses themselves in an unusual kink that they might even feel a bit embarrassed about in everyday life, that whole cool facade drops. you get to see that person in their most honest, unfiltered form of pleasure, with zero acting.

on the other hand, especially with a partner, it's about that insane level of trust. when someone completely drops their mask in front of me and dares to show what really goes on in their head, it creates an intimacy that is way more intense for me than any purely visual stimulus. so the actual turn on for me isn't the act itself, but feeling that pure, uninhibited dedication from the other person and being the exact safe space where they can completely let go.

that’s why I’m also very particular about porn i watch, it’s mostly just important to me that they’re *real* and genuinely amateur. it shouldn’t feel like the video exists solely for the sake of being a video or, if it does, then only in cases where the person doing the filming clearly finds the act of filming it hot themselves.

does anyone else know this feeling? and does anyone know if there is an actual term or label for this thing?

I (f30) really enjoy everything about giving blowjobs! Feeling a dick grow as I begin to work it further into my mouth is euphoric. I also enjoy getting slapped with a hard dick. Its just the right amount of degrading while also being a great reminder that I'm the reason they're hard enough to slap me in the first place.

Im curious tho, what does that feel like for the other person? Ive had guys go crazy when Ive slapped their dick against my tongue or cheek and others that dont really care for it. Obviously what works for one doesnt work for all, but I would love to hear from the perspective of dick havers - do you enjoy slapping your dick on someones face? If so, what does it feel like and why do you enjoy it? Is it a power move, or just a really good sensation?

Need to get a deeper cup, I want to see how far I can take it!

In m23, ive searched for a dom for a while, but i keep in meeting people who simply want short term or just a chat. If anyone who reads this can advise where to find someone or if you read it and wanna talk about it lmk. Im open to discussing more as well.

I 19 M feel ashame to be freaky and kinky because my friends made me feel that way. I am skinny , nerdy and my kink is to date a tall or muscular woman or both. Because I always wanted to date woman who can dominate me . I have other kinks too such as foot, eating armpits , licking and kissing whole body and others. My friends somehow found out and now I treat me weirdly and they say that's the reason all woman I have ever asked out rejected me. Should I supress my desire and act normal because that's what they told me

I’ve recently discovered when I hid in my work storage room that the smell of hot machinery and wires turns me on. Even the smell of power lines at night when they’re sizzling and buzzing. I love seeing exposed wires it makes me wanna be pushed against them and felt up. I’ve never had an “odd” kink and if you met me i seem very normal and i guess well liked and popular. I hardly see anyone mention this fetish. Am I alone or is this more common than I’m thinking…..

Hello! What are some books you'd recommend within the kink/bdsm space? I'm primarily seeking more books like The New Topping/Bottoming books by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy, and if possible available in digital stores/copies. But if you also reccomend any fiction or physical literature I'd for sure appreciate it. Thank you ☺️

Mine is muscular gym women and gorgeous trans women .

has anyone else experienced/heard of having a kink for power tools and workshops?

i (ftm) work in an industry where i encounter lots of guys working with their hands and with power tools. i love seeing the calculations in their minds, strong hands working lumber and metals ... i don't think it's only the tools that i like, it's the guys, but the power of association is real!

there's other elements at work here that contribute to me being into this, but i think power tools/workshops being controlled by masculine and intelligent guys is becoming a strangely specific turn-on for me.

anyone else heard of/have this? does this have a name?

Im m23, recently discovered i like wearing socks/pants for someone, whether they be selected or bought. Then being told to wear them and only changing once they say, like almost a smell/musk kink as well. Dont know how i got into that side of it, but is this interests anyone please reach out.

What are those videos that are one video on the left of a woman dining or on a date and a video of her fucking or sucking or masturbating on the right.

Or the pictures of a woman smiling all cute and dressed and in a cellphone screen is a picture of her naked.

A few months ago I posted on here about being up to my bf that I want to try out pet play. I got a lot of good suggestions and advice from people. I eventually confided in my partner about it and I don’t know where to go from here.

When I initially told him, he was happy as he knows I’m a very kinky person but haven’t really told him what I’m into out of embarrassment. He had never done anything wrong, but he’s the first person I’ve been able to experience these things with. I also know he is pretty kinky so I knew he wouldn’t judge me.

A few months have passed, but it’s left me super confused. As mentioned, he was very welcoming and intrigued. We eventually went to a sex shop (the closest one is like an hr away and I don’t like getting them online as I like to see and feel). We got a cat tail butt plug and a collar w/ leash. We also got a sex swing (this is relevant)

When we got home he immediately wanted to try out the swing which I was all for as I also wanted it, but it was his idea to get it when we saw it. It’s been close to two months and we still have not unboxed the other toys, the whole reason we went.

I know I should have a conversation with him and not assume things, but it makes me wonder if he isn’t really wanting to participate in said things. I don’t want to force him into anything he does not want to do. It just confuses me because he is a kinky person, and as mentioned earlier, he seemed very open about the idea.

I really want to eventually bring up more things that I want in our relationship but I’m honestly kind of nervous to. The topic of trying out pet play hasn’t come up since, and it makes me wonder if he doesn’t want anything to do with it. I just don’t know why he would agree and buy toys for it if he has no interest in using it on me.

I've always been a submissive bottom for as long as I can remember, eventually that led to kink for having "sissygasms," which eventually led to chastity, and now it's led me to SPH and sissification.

Anyone else find that their kinks spiral into other kinks? Or were those kinks already there under the surface?

Isn't this a fantastic guide for pretty buttholes? All so unique and deliciously enjoyable for a kinky man with a raging fetish😈

Hi all,

I was just wondering what a certain specific interest of mine is actually called. I believe voyeurism is close, but I don't think that's it.

I am very aroused by, for example, someone taking off their clothes to allow me to look all over them and observe their body without limits and without thinking it was weird. (All consentually). Think of that person as an exhibitionist who enjoys showing off their body. I don't think this is technically voyeurism, because the person who would be getting naked is getting naked FOR me to observe them, is completely aware of it, and allowing me to look and touch all over them like a scientist lol.

And when I ask for the name, I mean what would the specific kink be called for someone like me, who is aroused by the act of them allowing me to observe and touch them without limits? Is that still voyeurism, body worship, exhibition or what?

My kink is watching chubby small package guys.

Even more so seeing them pegged