My family came close to not having a home in three seperate occasions yet all three times in the final hour God has pulled through and we endedup in a home even better than the last.

So many people are saying like, if God is good, and purely good, why is there so much bad stuff here in the world? I have a kinda controversial opinion about this. How do we even know if death in general is actually bad?

Scenario: a person shoots a bunch of people in a school or somewhere like that. It’s obviously awful for us humans, like extremely awful. But that’s purely because we don’t know what happens after death. Would death really still be classified as bad if we actually knew for sure that you end up in heaven? You land in a place where you literally CANNOT feel bad at all.

It’s kinda like comparing it to that famous dilemma: would you take two million dollars if you get hit by a train and your legs break, but after 5 minutes you wake up in bed with 2 million dollars in your bank account and you don't even remember the dream or the pain?

You can almost compare life to a dream. In many cases you can experience literally anything in a dream and it affects you MAX 1 day. You can still move on with your day and have a "good day" afterward, and after a short while you’ve completely forgotten that extremely uncomfortable or awful nightmare. Because life goes on. So the events of the dream don't really hold value. What if that's how heaven works?

This actually matches sleep research too. There are studies showing that stress chemicals in the brain get turned off when we dream to strip away the emotional pain, so the discomfort just fades away when we wake up.
And the Bible literally says in Revelation 21:4 that He will wipe every tear from their eyes, death will be no more, and there will be no more sorrow or pain because the former things are gone.

So if you CANNOT feel bad in heaven, then nothing that happens on this earth actually matters, no matter how awful it looks or is, because the only thing that matters is heaven.

Then people might claim "yeah okay, but what if you don't die? What if you just suffer your entire life?" Well, the answer to that is that you can suffer in a dream through the whole dream too, but you won't be thinking about it when you wake up. Or you know what, you might not even remember it from the start just like in the dilemma where you wake up and the pain is completely gone.

I have POTS and I’m in a bad flare, I tried to cook us lunch and I just couldn’t I felt like I was gonna throw up, pass out, was flushing I j felt horrible. I’m in bed resting now but he has to leave soon to go serve.

I’m just scared because it’s hard for me to take care of myself, to cook and to eat. I’m asking him to make sure I have food made before he goes. But I just am kind of feeling mad at the church, because I feel like he should be able to stay home and take care of me.

But this has happened before where I wasn’t feeling good for a different reason and was told by one of the leaders that he needs to go serve.

And I'm Christian but the Christian people in my country strictly avoid participating in any ceremonies or festivals but Christians from the west EU,US-- tourists participate in these things and well I also participate in these things but I feel like I'm kinda betraying God. I just interpret to these ceremonies and festivals as expressions of love from my family, not a worship towards some pagan god. What should I do? I'll be like abroad to pursue my studies in 1-2 years and then I won't be able to do these stuff. I feel like God knows my heart and would forgive me even if I'm doing anything wrong. Lord jesus Christ have mercy on me a sinner. ( I also had a vivid~~semi vivid dream where I think I said something stupid to god, I don't really remember but this pagan related stuff and I felt like I got struck or smtg)

I’ve been laid off the second time in one year. I am the breadwinner, the insurance holder, the salary maker. I can’t hear one more person tell me to pray. If He was listening then why would He let this happen to me over and over again? What is the sense in this? I feel only contempt when I think of God right now. I’m supposed to go to a women’s conference at my church tomorrow and I don’t even want to bother going. What can church do for me? What can God do for me? He’s done nothing but make my life hard time and time again. I feel so lost and hopeless.

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Each Wednesday we're asking the community to share something about what you've been reading or studying this week. Tell us what you're learning, what you're digging into, what you've found challenging, interesting, encouraging or entertaining.

Which words have struck you this week? Feel free to share an excerpt or a quote.

So I am a born again Christian and this time I am trying to be more deep into my faith. I am currently doing Rooted group at church and have been praying in different ways to see how God can communicate with. When I hike I can feel God and usually feel light and feel his presence. I recently started to journal and pray to him and then I stay silent and stay still to listen to see if God speaks to me. So I stayed still for about 20 minutes and within the ten minutes I started feeling this warmth around my body and this Chest tightness like I couldn’t breathe but it felt warm. I have never felt that type of heaviness and am wondering what that is? I wasn’t scared I felt overall pretty calm but definitely felt this chest heaviness and felt like I was struggling to breathe normally. What could it be? Anyone?

I've been wondering recently, especially after hearing many mentions or some stories of personal convictions of people. For people who have personal convictions, how do you discern it from something else? Ty, and God bless.

I am trying to figure out this for myself after a friend asked me this question and I couldn’t manage to put any of it to words, and if I did it didn’t sound how I wanted it to sound.

Whats your answer?

I used to read the Bible almost every day, but now I’m starting to do it less than I usually would. I still pray to Him every day and thank Him for waking me up every morning.

Heyyyyyy so I'm in my mid twenties now, and I'm starting too crack, I feel societal pressures but also internal desires of wanting a relationship more and more. God as always is continuously teaching my spirit how to behave and how to serve him appropriately. Unfortunately there is no off switch tho and my wants are still wanting, so my question is how do I stay patient with God.

I broke up with the love of my life because she's not a Christian. We want to have kids and get married together. I love her so much and we have great communication, chemistry and we really understand eachother on a deep level. Am I crazy for doing this? I feel like i'm going against my entire being doing this. And I have a deep fear I'll regret this if I don't undo it. I also feel like I'm going to regret marrying her, that we will clash on the different faith part. I'm feeling like I'm being pulled to pieces in two different directions. If we dont get back together i have feeling that I'm going to regret it big time, BIG. Can anyone relate to this and do you have any advice?

For some context: I’m doing a 10-week Bible study on the prophets starting in January at my parish, but I started a study of Genesis on my own time last week. I just finished Rome Sweet Home by Scott Hahn after reading some of St. Louis de Montfort’s texts. I’m alsl considering St. Louis de Montfort for my confirmation saint.

Confessions - St Augustine
The Lamb’s Supper - Scott Hahn
Exodus - Ignatius Catholic Study Bible
Isaiah - Ignatius Catholic Study Bible
Dei Verbum - Vatican Council II
The Pentateuch - Joseph Blenkinsopp
Hexaemerom with On the Making of Man - Sta Basil of Caesarea
Love of Eternal Wisdom - St. Louis de Montfort
Uniformity with God’s Will - St. Alphonsus Liguori
The Imitation of Christ - Thomas Á Kempis
Interior Castle - St. Teresa of Avila
Dialogue with Trypho - Justin Martyr
The Dark Night of the Soul - St. John of the Cross
Theology for Beginners - Frank Sheed
Against Heresies - St. Irenaeus of Lyons
On the Incarnation - St. Athanasius
On the Holy Spirit - St. Basil the Great
The History of the Church - Eusebius
Jesus and the Jewish Roots of the Eucharist - Brant Pitre
Jesus the Bridegroom - Brant Pitre

If you have anything else you’d suggest, let me know! But if you have any input on the stuff I listed, do comment please!

Thank you and God bless you

Does Following Jesus truly require me to divorce my muslim husband or can I stay with him? Can Jesus really bring him to him.

i was SAd a couple weeks ago, the guy called me the next day to tell me to take a plan b. i was freighted and scared. and i expressed my concern on the phone asking if that is it like an abortion. i really didnt know and ive never been in anything like that. i understand plan b, but personally i never thought i would have to take that. I know i wasnt pregnant then and possibly i never would’ve been. But if it was Gods will for me to have a baby,its almost like i stopped that from happening. Idky i just feel really sad about it, and maybe for me it does feel sinful. I also am dealing with the trauma of what happened and maybe am trying to move the feelings towards something that was in my control. thx u.

Hey, I’m curious to know what other Christian think about medication for mental health purposes.

Since my days in high school I’ve been suspicious of potential mental health “issues” that I might have. Today was the first day that I perceived an anxiety attack as such and I realized I’ve have them many times before. I’ve noticed signs of adhd too. I’m super hyper and have a tendency of making impulsive rash decisions. I have trouble focusing, my mind never shuts off. I also can’t sit still, like ever.

I don’t want to follow the crowd per se and join the bandwagon of the neuro spicy movement happening now but it’d be really nice to know if I were on that spectrum.

Anyway, as I was journaling today I made a vow to never be medicated if it were the case. I really have no interest in being pumped up of meds; for mental health purposes or not. I’m not a fan of western medicine and synthetic drugs. Medication for mental health purposes are also kinda demonized in my circle of “African Christians”. I’ve heard testimonies of believers being freed of anxiety disorders and things as such and I believe that if I were to be clinically diagnosed I would combat it in prayer and counseling.

It says: ‘For it is impossible, in the case of those who have once been enlightened, who have tasted the heavenly gift, and have shared in the Holy Spirit, and have tasted the goodness of the word of God and the powers of the age to come, and then have fallen away, to restore them again to repentance, since they are crucifying once again the Son of God to their own harm and holding him up to contempt.’

I have fallen away since a few months. I stopped going to church and to read my Bible. Sometimes, I try to come back, but only because I’m scared of dying and going to hell. But then I fall away again. Today, I committed a sin I haven’t done in a while, so I tried to come back again. Since the verse of the day it Hebrew 6, I read the whole chapter. After reading verse 4-6, I thought “maybe I had to read this to know that things will never be right again. I was hesitating to read 1 Corinthians 13, since the verse of yesterday came from that chapter and yesterday, I almost read the Bible and it would have been that chapter I would have read, but decided to read the chapter of today instead.

Are there people here that fell away and got back again? How did you do it?

Have you ever broken off a relationship because the person was not a Christian? Even though you really loved the person and there wasn't a lot of issues? You just realized there would be difficulties in the future because of this?

Hi guys! I'm 26M and I was recently promoted to Deputy Manager at my job, I'm really proud of myself as I've worked hard to get this role - and I'm enjoying the job so far! (this is my first job being a senior/managerial type)

However, recently I've caught wind of certain employees speaking about me in a pretty bad way. The majority of my team really appreciates the job I do, and are a wonderful bunch - but since I started working there about 3 years ago, 2 employees have always had a massive dislike for me, and it's been a big thing with HR... I've never done anything wrong or bad to them, they've always just had it out for me (I've chalked it up to jealousy, as they both have a lot going on in their personal lives, and I'm 30 years younger than them and seemingly doing quite well?).

Anyway, I'm used to them making comments, creating lies and complaining about me but recently it's been really affecting me! 2 weeks ago I forgot to do something (not a massive thing) because I was very busy, and people have heard them complaining that I'm a terrible deputy and I'm not performing well. I find myself being worried about what they think and who else they might be telling, and if those people believe the stories!!

I know that Jesus tells us to not worry, and to cast our fears/anxieties unto him - and this has been working for a long time! But recently, it's not been working as much. I'm really struggling with how to deal with this situation spiritually, so if anyone can help me with some advice I'd really appreciate it!

God bless you all and Praise to our Lord! <3

I feel this is becoming controversial. What are your thoughts? All other religions are false paths to destruction. Jesus is the only way to God/Heaven that few follow? Not religion, Not being a good person, Not going to Church, Not saying your Christian, not being a loving person and others.

“ “Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who enter through it. For the gate is narrow and the way is constricted that leads to life, and there are few who find it.”

Matthew 7:13-14 LSB

“Jesus *said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father but through Me.”

John 14:6 LSB

“I am the door; if anyone enters through Me, he will be saved, and will go in and out and find pasture. ”

John 10:9 LSB

“And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men by which we must be saved.””

Acts 4:12 LSB

Today, a payment delay with a delivery rider turned into threats and degrading comments about me as a woman. I became angry, shouted, and said things I regret.

His behaviour was wrong, and I’m responsible for my response. That’s a hard thing to sit with.

I’m learning that loving people doesn’t mean accepting mistreatment. I can set a boundary, end a conversation, and seek accountability without insulting someone back.

The hardest part is walking away when I still feel wronged- when they haven’t apologised or even admitted what they did. I want to learn to leave without having the last word.

I’m asking God for grace to pause while I’m angry and choose my words carefully. I haven’t mastered it. But I want to grow in love and self-control.

It feels like this was my test and i failed. I want to get somewhere in life and i always feel like my doors are closed.
Today after reflecting, i realize God may be holding those doors back because i might get there and disgrace myself and the fall will be worse than now.