Hey y'all! Pretty sure this is my first time ever posting on Reddit, so bear with me. US 28F here. Sort of a ramble.
I originally graduated with a BA in English in 2021. To this day I don't regret it, I love writing and language, and minored in Spanish as well. I still write to this day, but i chose English with a communications track thinking i'd work in an office, perhaps journalism/content writing, go into teaching, or law, and i'd do my writing on the side. Well, by graduation i tried everything except law and hated every single thing (besides teaching, i like helping others learn, but the career itself was just not desirable to me at the time). I tried comp sci classes for a bit and enjoyed programming but knew the career was not right for me. I got accepted into law school on a whim, even got a scholarship, and realized i didnt want anything to do with law for the time being. I worked in an office as an admin assistant in a blue collar field for a few years, staying at home to save most of my paychecks.
During this time, i finally got medicated for an underlying anxiety disorder, did foreign language exchanges online and basically helped people learn english in casual discord settings while i improved my spanish, wrote a couple books (yay) but theyre not ready for publishing yet, even got back into art and taught myself painting. I did some pet sitting too for extra cash, and saved almost all of it. I knew i wanted to go back to school but i had no idea what to do. AI had made it even harder to consider going back for a masters or phd, and i love English, but not enough to go back for those degrees and paying for it.
What i learned about myself during this time, was that i spent too long letting anxiety rule over me and the medication was so necessary; i love being creative; i love knowing ive helped others; and i love to LEARN. I began reading nonfiction books like crazy because dammit i missed learning new things!
A year of being medicated, i started reevaluating things. Based on finances and my privilege of staying home with family, i decided i should probably go back to school and see if any healthcare fields like nursing would be worth a shot without draining my savings. I quit my job and enrolled in a cc to start taking prereqs. It was risky but i was in a good place to rebound in case i changed my mind.
I realized very quickly i love biology. Like, so much. I always loved the sciences but due to my anxiety and fear of math, I was never brave enough. I ended up excelling in statistics and all my biology classes. I kept asking questions because i just wanted to know more, and i'd get giddy watching science tiktoks and reading science-centered nonfiction books realizing i understood most of the language used. By second semester, a professor from one of my bio classes approached me and told me she strongly believed i had what it took to go into research or med school, and encouraged me to go towards that direction.
I never had any professor intentionally come to me and tell me i was meant for something like this. It really struck me. I sat on what she said for a week or so after the semester ended. I researched career paths and what they'd look like. Med school called to me and it still does but i knew i'd need more time to commit to it. I looked at the types of research careers there were. But ive learned the best way to find out is to just try it. So i emailed her and brought up what she said and asked if she had advice for any way to get research opportunities.
Long story short, she got me a paid part time job at a university lab! just from me asking for advice. She connected me with my current pi, we talked, i started working, and now im on track to get at least a year of tuition towards a BS fully funded because i was eligible for that program. And it turns out, i LOVE research. The lab is micro/molecular focused with immunology applications. I've already attended an event with that lab and thoroughly enjoyed it, got business cards, talked to professionals. I dont even care im now 28 and back in undergrad. I'm loving everything! I planned out my coursework and i could potentially graduate by fall of 2028 with most of the coursework fully funded. What the hell! 2017 year old me would have an aneurysm if she found out this was gonna be her life 10 years later.
So now i have to figure out what the plan is for after graduation. I'm going to check out any clinical experiences/shadowing whenever i can just to see if i'm still leaning towards MD. Clinical research has been piquing my interest. I'm also looking at what it means to get an MS or PhD and if it would be worth it. Science communications might also be fun to check out but unfortunately i worry AI might take that over too. There's a science career fair coming up on campus so i plan to go there and at least chit chat with somebody and see if there's anything to check out.
Sorry for the long ramble. I appreciate any advice or suggestions :)