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what's a 10/10 life experience you must have at least once in your life?

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u/Rednine2591 4h ago edited 4h ago

Seeing the nightsky without visual/light polution. I went for a vacation to our province more than a decade ago. It was an island but has busy center of town were most people are already at home and asleep by 8PM

We went out to the outskirts so not much other light source except from the car that were driving then we decided to stop over the roadside. Since theres no one really driving around the place, we quickly laid down on the road.

Seeing thousands of stars above you really makes you think alot. Some good and some bad, life is beautiful, about how insignificant we are, and all other things

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u/the4thbandit 4h ago

Bucket list item for me at this point.

Been to 15 countries and have never seen an unimpeded night sky šŸ˜ž

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u/Quiet_Suspect_7117 2h ago

Come to New Zealand :)

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u/Otus511 1h ago

Whoa, now! Keep it down.

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u/mellomee 37m ago

We went to a dark sky park in NZ and could see light from cars, it was a bit disappointing!

If you're in the States, there's a few great spots. Sedona is magical.

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u/Mysterious-Ear9401 2h ago

Arizona star gazing in the summer!

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u/goldenrodddd 2h ago

Check out if there's any Dark Sky Parks near you! Highly recommend. They make it easy to see without venturing into the wilderness, at least the one I went to.

darksky.org (no affiliation to them I just love what they do)

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u/Rednine2591 4h ago

I hope you get the chance to see it too and I hope you appreaciate it as I did :)

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u/mattywgtnz 2h ago

New Zealand. 100%

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u/Black_of_ear 1h ago

As someone from the prairies of Canada, this statement is unfathomable to me. I’ve never really considered that people haven’t seen the unimpeded sky…

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u/CaptainDudley 1h ago

In Michigan, during the 1970's before industry and increasing automotive traffic turned the sky semi opaque, the Aura Borealis was easily visible on winter nights. First time I saw it, It was as though the night sky was painted on a sheet and suddenly the gods 'floofed' it- snapped the sheet as if making a bed. thousands of stars rippled in a giant wave, and I thought I was hallucinating. It was only later I saw the 'curtain' effect and, although incredible in itself, was not as visually arresting as the Great Floof.

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u/SPguy425 1h ago

If you're in the US, or visiting, go on a Kayak tour in Castine, Maine. The cove there has the bioluminescent phytoplankton and I was able to see the Milky Way with my own eyes. One of the top 3 experiences of my entire life thus far.

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u/Cafuski 2h ago

Co. Kerry in Ireland has the only Gold Tier Dark Sky Reserve in the northern hemisphere… it’s quite the sight at night!

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u/Scuubyduubi 4h ago

You’re running out of time sadly and so please do this immediately. Satellites are being launched at exponential rates this decade. Within 20 years I don’t think anywhere on earth will have Milky Way visibility ( including the middle of the pacific). Light pollution is currently getting 10% every year and that’ll probably accelerate

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u/SavingsBake9035 3h ago

If you are ever in Nevada, go outside of the major cities and the night sky is amazing!

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u/arre_chungus 4h ago

Can relate to this. I live in a city which has a lot of light and air pollution. Hardly any stars are visible.

Two years back I was in Yosemite National Park. Rented a cabin there with family. We all would sit late in the night outside watching the sky. Gave a different appreciation for the cosmos.

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u/Rednine2591 4h ago

Doing this with family is priceless

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u/FuntingFollowHarms 4h ago

Witnessed this in Yellowstone as a kid, and it was incredible and a little scary at the same time. It was scary because even though we were in an empty field, it was so dark you couldn’t see much around you- but it also made me realize how minuscule our world is and how incomprehensible the size of the universe really is.

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u/Rednine2591 4h ago

Space is awesome and scary šŸ˜‚

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u/younghibou 4h ago

It's magical

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u/Rednine2591 4h ago

It is indeed :D

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u/CarpenterOwn5712 4h ago

During my time in military we were patrolling at night with light amplifiers. Looked up and saw the kind of sky you see in those photographs that show millions of stars and planets.

It was beautiful, but also kind of frightening. You feel so insignificant. It happened roughly 20 years ago. I still remember vividly that night.

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u/know-it-mall 3h ago edited 3h ago

Yea the first time you get that experience it really sticks with you.

Many people think they have seen an amazing nights sky but they haven't. It's a next level experience.

Had been out in the desert at night with perfect conditions and it literally feels like you are on the moon or something.

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u/Logik_1 4h ago

This one sits with me, and is why I look back so fondly on our camping trip to Death Valley… seeing all of those stars without any light pollution will sit with me forever. To think thousands of years ago our ancestors looked up the same way blows my mind.

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u/Rednine2591 4h ago

Never have thought of that, a great thing to ponder!

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u/Danglarsdanglers 4h ago

I had this experience. Wonderful. In the Thar desert on the India/Pakistan border. I’m familiar with most of the main constellations and stars. But there were so many stars shining that I couldn’t even pick out the Big Dipper!

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u/Rednine2591 4h ago

I find sailors amazing for using the stars for navigation. Id be lost figuring out which is which šŸ˜†

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u/Stunning-Register574 3h ago

I had a very similar experience. I took my two grandsons for a camping trip in Colorado. We camped at a fairly high elevation. I came out of the tent at about 2 am. It was a clear night, and my view if the stars was so breathtaking I can still remember that moment clears, 20 years later

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u/mmp126 4h ago

Hiked the pa’rus trail at Zion National Park a few weeks past. At 10pm. Saw so many stars. And the Milky Way. Worth it. It’s a must see.

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u/Rednine2591 4h ago

Will definitely ease off your tired legs during the hike hehe

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u/Dense_Technology_773 4h ago

Which places can you recommend?

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u/purpleit87 4h ago

Isle of Scilly if you are in the UK - one great spot is the helipadĀ 

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u/thefant 4h ago

I went to Dumfriesshire last summer - bit closer to Edinburgh than the Isle of Scilly - and was utterly blown away by the number of stars I could see

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u/Reapertownusa 4h ago

If you live anywhere near southern california, the Mojave desert, Joshua tree nation park, death valley. I personally went to Joshua tree with someone about 3 years ago and she got a long slexposure shot of the night sky and you can see the milky way galaxy in it. It was beautiful.

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u/thefinalcutdown 3h ago

Sailboat on the ocean. Absolutely nothing out there to impede the view.

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u/Rednine2591 4h ago

Im in the Philippines. I believe most provinces here have places like that but i know theres more accesible nearby countries you can check out too

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u/know-it-mall 3h ago edited 3h ago

Its hard to say specifically without knowing where in the world you are but the desert is always a solid choice. I have had amazing star gazing in the Simpson Desert and the Atacama Desert. This is the real 10/10 experience.

A close second is camping out in any national park/wilderness area.

Just make sure to check what phase the moon will be in so you are not anywhere near a full moon. And of course the weather so it isn't cloudy.

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u/Acceptable_Nature689 4h ago

i second this. while not completely devoid of light pollution, i once took a glass-top night train through the mountains and it changed my life.

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u/Rednine2591 4h ago

Thats awesome! I didnt know such train exist, will look out for a video of this

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u/Projectleider 4h ago

It makes me sad most people never see a normal sky

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u/Rednine2591 4h ago

For some, its starting to be a privilege specially if you live in a loud bustling part of a town or city

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u/Projectleider 3h ago

To me, living in a city is idiocy. But I'm probably the weird one.

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u/Rednine2591 3h ago

Nah not weird at all. Most adults I know now just want to settle somewhere quiet, me included šŸ˜‚

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u/Kobaltchardonnay 4h ago

This is something I miss living in Germany. I grew up in East Africa (European father moved a lot for work), I appreciated having that magic in our garden almost every day. When I see a few stars at night where I live in Germany, I am extremely grateful.

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u/Rednine2591 4h ago

Having that just right by your house is a blessing!

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u/Kobaltchardonnay 3h ago

It really is! Trips back to East Africa to visit my Belgian father are treats.

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u/highwayofintactdream 4h ago

Assuming your eye sight is still good, this is recommended

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u/Rednine2591 4h ago

You made me realize something 🤣. I have an Astigmatism, Im not sure if it impacted my experience positively or negatively šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

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u/gnanny02 4h ago

We went backpacking the the Japan alps and I was primed with knowledge of the stars, constellations, etc. The night was completely clear and dark. I couldn't find anything. There were so many stars the key ones were lost to me. The Milky Way was pretty spectacular however.

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u/HerStory__ 4h ago

This happened to me in France this summer at my cousin’s wedding. The estate was 3 hrs away from the city. At night, it looked like I could grab the stars out of the sky!! Hunny and I were sooooo amazed!! 🤩🤩🤩

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u/CuteJungle 4h ago

man, seeing a sky full of stars with barely any light pollution is a different kind of experience. makes all your problems feel so small for a moment, but somehow that’s comforting rather than depressing

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u/BigAssDragoness 3h ago

I got to see this in the middle of remote scrub desert in Nevada, and it was absolutely spectacular. I could see the band of the Milky Way with my naked eyes. There were just...stars upon stars upon stars. I was humbled by the sight.

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u/TheHeatYeahBam 3h ago

I completely agree. I took my family to Great Sand Dunes National Park a few years ago which is supposed to be one of the best places to view the sky without light or air pollution. We drove out to the middle of nowhere. I couldn't believe how much we could see!

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u/Worried_Blacksmith27 3h ago

I am extremely privileged to experience this on a quite regular basis and have done for decades. It still blows my mind every time.

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u/Bulky_Hippo_3391 3h ago

Yes! This is a great one, one of my favourite ever experiences

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u/The-Extro-Intro 3h ago

I saw it near Page AZ. It is an amazing experience. Especially if the stars are out.

What's even more amazing is when you realize
It's not OUT there, it you are a part of it. Makes you realize how insignificant we (and our problems) are in the whole scheme of things.

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u/captain-crawf1sh 3h ago

I went to big bend national Park in Texas and its a 8/10 on the darkness scale and it was worth the 8hr drive from Dallas

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u/Careful_Pear_1895 3h ago

I have vague memories around 1998, when I was about 5 years old and living in a Chinese village without night lights. It was bright by the moon or thousands of stars!

Nowadays that village got absorbed by the near 5 million people city and got high rises etc, so no more dark nights 🤣

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u/ipuio 3h ago

Everywhere one earth until 150, 175 or so years was like this. Most the Earth was still like this 100 years ago. I’ve seen that once we put enough satellites and trash in space, enough light will be scattered to disrupt viewing the night sky from everywhere

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u/thefinalcutdown 3h ago

I would add to this, looking at Saturn through a really good telescope.

All the planets are cool of course, but there’s something about seeing Saturn just hanging there in the sky, casting its shadow on its rings that’s almost transcendental.

Truly feels like gazing upon an alien world.

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u/dalp00 3h ago

Many people dont get to experience this, while in my case, it is just a regular night šŸ‘

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u/Cold-Pen-9174 3h ago

Wow, I can only imagine. Dream view fr

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u/GalumphingWithGlee 3h ago

That's getting harder and harder as time goes on. Even where there's almost no human population or surface-level light pollution, the number of satellites is steadily growing.

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u/eggke-lai 2h ago

Done that on a ship in mid Pacific, doing lighting drill on a carrier when we have to turn off the light for a minute and all light off, never see that many star in my life. However, don't find the Milky Way though

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u/richtheD 2h ago

it's beautiful to see the true night sky

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u/SinxSam 2h ago

I read your beautiful comment, and then the one right below it says ā€œTelling a shitty boss to go fuck themselves and quitting.ā€ Hahaha

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u/Alternative-Arugula4 2h ago

Thank you for the suggestion! I just planned a stargazing evening with my family

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u/goldenrodddd 2h ago

I couldn't agree more. A number of years ago I went to a Dark Sky Park. I will never forget seeing the Milky Way with my own eyes, I always thought you needed a telescope to see it. I was in utter awe in a way that I don't think I've felt since.

I was and remain so, so angry about light pollution. Humans were meant to see that every night! I really wonder how different our lives might be if we got to remember how small we are at the end of each day...

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u/InevitableAd9683 2h ago

I've seen a 100% solar eclipse, and I've seen the night sky from the middle of fucking nowhere Wyoming on a clear night with a new moon. Both were amazing, but if I had to pick one to see again it would be the second one.Ā 

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u/ipg3000 2h ago

Before the invention of the light bulb that's how the night sky looked for everyone everywhere

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u/Annual-Gas-3485 2h ago

I moved to an island like that near the polar circle, far away from city light pollution. No words for just how mindblowing this experience can be on a clear winter night.Ā 

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u/TheMayorMikeJackson 1h ago

This is how my friend died.

Not laying in the road, but swerving away from some people who were

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u/PseudoMcJudo 1h ago

Agawa Bay campground on the northern shores of Lake Superior. Beautiful sky. Would highly recommend. Middle of no where but so beautiful. The milky way is one of the greatest things in the entire universe to see in it's full glory.

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u/CrazyBoutCatz 1h ago

I’m from Newfoundland in Canada. Never realized growing up what a blessing the fresh air and starry skies were! Highly recommend the new Netflix show Below for a small taste of how special the province really is.

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u/SwatkatFlyer42 1h ago

I feel quite lucky. I get to this regularly where I live.

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u/fakeuser515357 1h ago

I've been living in the city for 30 years but grew up out in the sticks.

I miss the stars.

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u/phillymjs 1h ago

Can confirm. A friend moved to Vermont, a really, really rural part. City-dwelling me went up to visit for a weekend. I knew of light pollution, but was still gobsmacked by the difference in the night sky. Endless stars, satellite after satellite passing by overhead (and this was years before Starlink, I can't imagine what it looks like now)...

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u/JustinSensei412 1h ago

I did some stargazing on a cold clear winter night in the Red Centre of Australia - it felt like science fiction. You could see so clearly that the Milky Way is a galaxy and we’re in it. After a few minutes it began to feel like the galactic center was down, like you could just fall into the sky. Incredible.

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u/Dirty_Signal_837 56m ago

Deployed in 2001 for GWOT. While on guard one night decided to put on my night vision goggles and looked up. Let out a long audible wow. 15 mins later several of us were laying on our backs, rifles laying down next to us while we just looked up. Spent most of the night doing so.

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u/unicorn8dragon 52m ago

US southwest, or Canada north of the big cities (like Nova Scotia). It’s breathtaking, really makes you realize why ancient people viewed the stars with such reverence.

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u/Rusah 38m ago

I got to see a ton of this while camping and hiking in the boy scouts. No wonder I liked going on campouts every month - as an adult I crave the level of peace and serenity I got from sitting next to a crackling fire on a cool evening after a long day out in the wilderness. Everyone sitting in front of the fire, no one speaking above a whisper to not ruin the mood.

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u/BBB9076 33m ago

For real. I was on an island in Belize and spent hours lying on a beach, smoking a cigar and just looking at the sky. Best night of my life and I hate cigars šŸ˜‚

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u/Vivid_Ad_612 12m ago

I grew up in North Dakota - very close to Canada. This was the best thing about it. To this day, I love the dark.

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u/Fearless_Feeling1464 8m ago

I remember when I did this for the first time. A friend of mine and I did a road trip to pick up an eBay win about 5 hours away. His van broke down on the way back in the middle of nowhere. Whilst we were waiting for someone from the AA to take us back the rest of the way there was nothing to do but lie on the grass verge and look up. Absolutely incredible, saw so many shooting stars. Don’t think I’d seen any up until that point

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u/manofgoodtastes 6m ago

The stars of the Milky Way at night

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u/Neon_Biscuit 4h ago

How about a non-corny answer? I imagine getting high on herion for the first time is 10/10. Then it goes to 9/10 and eventually 0/10 lol

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u/Rednine2591 4h ago

Yeah I know its kinda corny hahahah. But appart from the corniness, its really phenomenal

Also, imagine getting high under the night sky. That could be your 100/10 experience šŸ˜‚

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u/know-it-mall 3h ago

I don't have to imagine and it's absolutely amazing.

A couple of times my friends and I hiked half a day out into a national park, set up our camp and took LSD and just spent hours laying on the ground staring up. It was unreal.

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u/know-it-mall 3h ago

If you think this is a corny answer then you haven't really experienced it.

A nice night of decent star gazing vs camping in the middle of a desert with perfect star gazing conditions are not the same experience.