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what's a 10/10 life experience you must have at least once in your life?

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u/Blue_MJS 8h ago

I felt like this when I visited Japan from the UK, been to Japan twice now & the culture shock isn't going to Japan.. It's coming back to the UK.

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u/F1r3st4rter 8h ago

I feel like Japan really isn’t that much different from the UK. I’d say it’s one of the countries where I’ve had the least culture shock.

Both countries are crowded, historic island nations built on politeness, restraint, and orderly public life.

Cars drive on the left, towns are compact lived-in areas, and commuting is rail-centered. There is a social scene built around pubs or izakayas and a shared love of tea and ritual.

Add the understated, self-deprecating humor and the habit of apologising for everything, and it all adds up to a familiar feeling place.

If you remove the highly efficient and bright light cities and robots I feel you get very close to the UK in my opinion.

Not to say I didn’t have culture shock the first time I visited, but the 2nd and 3rd times I went there I started really comparing it to the UK.

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u/Mithent 7h ago

I also think Japanese media and other coverage has meant that I was somewhat familiar with the culture before visiting, so while it was enjoyable to visit and experience it for real, there wasn't too much "shock" (also from the UK). Thailand was far more "different" to me.

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u/hip-hoperation 7h ago

I always have to describe this to people, yes it looks very different, but it feels very familiar.

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u/shitchopants 7h ago

London is crowded, like any major city is crowded.

Japan is on another level than London.

People in London are polite to the people they know, but are unbelievably rude and crass to others they don’t.

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u/jlharper 4h ago

I’m surprised you say that because the thing that shocked me about Japan was how empty the countryside was and how decidedly uncrowded it was (apart from Tokyo of course).

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u/BayonetsNHarmonicas 3h ago

Are towns in other countries not compact and lived-in?

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u/thepinkinmycheeks 3h ago

Not always. Countries with huge amounts of land may have towns that are much more spread out.

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u/JJJC16 6h ago

I felt this with Japan. Coming back from a quiet and polite country to the parking lot of my home airport where people were shouting and the high level of noise pollution was night and day difference.

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u/smokinggun96 7h ago

Japan is mind blowing. From the second you get off the plane your transferred into a different world absolutely insane

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u/Blue_MJS 6h ago

Yeah. It isn't just the bright neon lights of Tokyo that a lot of people probably think about when thinking of Japan.. It's the entire culture & place. It's how quiet & peaceful it is just walking about the streets, it's how safe you feel wondering around even at night in a busy city, it's how clean everywhere is. It's how respectful & organised the people are. The ENTIRE "Vibe" of the place is like nowhere I've ever been before.

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u/Zippyllama 7h ago

Doing this made me appreciate the US so much more. I have wonderful experiences abroad, but always come back with a new appreciation for home.

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u/Blue_MJS 7h ago

I had the opposite effect in all honesty. I've traveled a good bit around Europe but going to Japan was like the only time that made me feel so underwhelmed with the UK.

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u/Herpderpyoloswag 7h ago

I hear traveling there and living there is a totally different experience.

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u/subnautus 7h ago

If you're referring to Japan, I tend to agree. My experience of living there was that their attitude towards foreigners changed dramatically if they found out you weren't just a tourist. Their hospitality culture is strong, but so is their culture of conformity.

But, then, I lived there in the '80s, and it's my understanding that they've become less xenophobic as the younger generations have started to gain influence and political power.

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u/SooSneeky 5h ago

You should try some 3rd world countries, they'll make you seriously appreciate the UK

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u/Blue_MJS 5h ago

Walking down some streets in Glasgow is like a 3rd world country these days 😅

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u/SooSneeky 5h ago

Eh, you get that in all major cities.

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u/HauntedJackInTheBox 4h ago

You're making it sound like it wasn't way worse before! Glasgow was an absolute tip until very recently (as beautiful as some neighbourhoods are). It was renowned for having the worst slums in the country, and had the most violence and crime until really only a few years ago. It was called the 'murder capital of Europe'!

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u/Blue_MJS 4h ago

Oh yeah definitely it's improved in terms of crime compared to years ago

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u/jerifishnisshin 5h ago

Originally from the uk, I visited Japan for the first time when I was 22, and stayed.
That was in 1996, so I’ve been living here 30 years. I visit the UK every two years or so, and it’s always fun, but I have no desire to live there again.

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u/twogenders250 3h ago

Same with Japan and Canada.

Coming home feels like coming back to a 3rd world country.

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u/Wise-Milk-8285 6h ago

That reverse culture shock is so real. Landing back home and immediately noticing all the litter, the noise, and the general wear and tear makes you look at your own country completely differently

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u/Turkey_Tacos 7h ago

Preachhhhh! I love Japan and now only want to travel there because everywhere else doesn’t seems as good….including my own country (which isn’t saying much at the current moment)