I'm 22, turning 23 in a couple of months. Live in a former industrial town in Cheshire, wasn't born here just moved here when I was a kid. Went to university in manchester but had to come back cause I didn't land a job after graduating.
To be completely honest I hate this town. I cannot see any future for myself round these parts and I desperately want out. It feels like a black hole though. Almost like everything about this place was engineered to stop people from moving away.
There's basically no full time work, what does exist is senior roles that require really specific qualifications or jobs in teaching/care (which if you ask me is something you should never go into out of necessity but that's a different topic). And the busses don't start running till after 9pm which makes commuting impossible unless you drive.
I've had to take up doing morning shifts at a small business, which is good work but I only do 10 hours a week, at minimum wage. When you're earning that little saving up for things like a car or relocation costs becomes nigh on impossible. Which keeps you where you are. With the cost of living at the moment you need a much bigger financial safety net for relocating than you would have even just 10 years ago. And trying to get a job that can actually pay rent (stable full time work with consistent hours and income) is like pulling teeth. ESPECIALLY when you don't live where you're applying to already.
It feels like my life is on hold as long as i stay here. There's nothing this place can offer me. I want to be enjoying nightlife and going on dates to art exhibitions not just stuck in the home > gym > home > repeat loop I've been in.
(Just for context in case someone asks or suggests any of these: I don't have any extended family in other parts of the country i can stay with and none of my friends have their own places so I can't couch surf. I'm not interested in doing a working holiday abroad or joining the army. And my degree is in the arts, not very employable but I had fun doing it)
Any thoughts? Id really like to hear a success story from someone who was in a similar position to me and made it out. Gives me something to aspire to.